Everything In Moderation!!!

[Triple X]

Yes!!!

I think I've stumbled onto a great truth here.

One of the keys to have great success with women (or indeed life in general), is... do everything in moderation!!

What I mean by this is not over-doing something, but not under-doing it either. This is the best method to deploy in practically any situation.

For example, David D (and many others) always emphasize the importance of C&F, neg-hits etc. While these techniques may indeed work well, the secret to really using them effectively is, you guessed it, in moderation!!

If you are too ****y all the time, the girl will generally think you are an a$$hole and grow to dislike you. But at the same time if you are not trying to be C&F enough, it won't be effective at all.

Another example. Say you start seeing a girl... if you see her too often, she will get tired of you, take you for granted and possibly dump you. However if you see her too less she will probably lose interest (or assume you have lost interest) and the relationship will die.

So the key is to get a healthy balance. The possible examples of this being effective are practically endless.

Basically if you wanna improve your success rate in anything, especially the techniques on here, just remember that one line...repeat it like a mantra in your head over and over again:

Everything in moderation.

Do this, and you can't go far wrong.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Moderation or balance?

 

[Triple X]

Um, is it not the same thing?!? A healthy balance, ie in moderation.

 

[Bond Juan]

I also believe in this and have been using this in my life slightly recently. I always pondered about using equilibrium with relationships, but this post gives some good points as this will work well in dating as well.

Nice post man

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Triple X
Um, is it not the same thing?!? A healthy balance, ie in moderation.

Not at all. Moderation is a limiting measurement, one that is less than others at that. So, are you going to be a DJ (in moderation)? Will you be successful in your career (but just in moderation). Will you have a good relationship with your girlfriend (but just in moderation)?

Now consider, being the BEST DJ that you could ever be, WITHOUT any limits WHILE doing your best in your career AND being the best guy that your girl could ever dream of; ALL AT THE SAME TIME without limits? Doing all equally well, one not superseding the other, without any moderation.

Get the difference? Some guys can choose to do things in just moderation but guys like me who does things to his best ability will surpass those that accept moderation.

Here's a vivid example, Lance Armstrong does not ride a bike in moderation. Where would he be if he did?

 

[Triple X]

Yes, but I'm talking about when it comes to gaming women, particularly when your first taking a girl out. OK so I said it's effective in practically any situation, but I didn't mean not to do your best to succeed at anything. You're misunderstanding what I am saying.

What I mean is when you are in situations where you are perhaps not too experienced and a little unsure of what best to do (esp. with women), the best thing to do is not too much, not too little.

OK so maybe it won't be as effective in every area of life, but it sure helps a lot when it comes to attracting (and preferably keeping) women. And that's what we're on this site to learn about, right?!?