"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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everyone thinks somethin is up

Artcus

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i've been talkin to this girl at work for awhile and we are pretty close, but about 3 weeks ago she came over for the night and though i wanted to sex her up i didn't for various reasons which i wont go into. and then a lil less then a week ago she tried to kiss me but i pulled back at the last second. and now every one at work thinks the two of us are dating or what ever, when we're not, but i'm workin on changin that. just wondering if any one has any kinda advice on how to go about it and make it seem really smooth and easy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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