i've been talkin to this girl at work for awhile and we are pretty close, but about 3 weeks ago she came over for the night and though i wanted to sex her up i didn't for various reasons which i wont go into. and then a lil less then a week ago she tried to kiss me but i pulled back at the last second. and now every one at work thinks the two of us are dating or what ever, when we're not, but i'm workin on changin that. just wondering if any one has any kinda advice on how to go about it and make it seem really smooth and easy.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
everyone thinks somethin is up
- Thread starter Artcus
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
