i've been talkin to this girl at work for awhile and we are pretty close, but about 3 weeks ago she came over for the night and though i wanted to sex her up i didn't for various reasons which i wont go into. and then a lil less then a week ago she tried to kiss me but i pulled back at the last second. and now every one at work thinks the two of us are dating or what ever, when we're not, but i'm workin on changin that. just wondering if any one has any kinda advice on how to go about it and make it seem really smooth and easy.