"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everyone should read this

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aaah let the ignorant one drown for he doesnt even know himself
 

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I promise you guys, I will be working my ass off to achieve that.
A frikkin awsome post. And the same with the replies.
 

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I have to say the first time I read Jobs' speech, which was early this summer, I was shocked at how blunt he was. I mean I like the antidote of his career life, coming back from getting fired from his own company, but I don't think it his theme "Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish" is that correct. There are many AFC's who are hungry and foolish. And it is both their hunger and their foolishness that is helping them stay a chump.

Steve, your a great communicator and innovator, but not a self-help-this-is-the-key-to-live guru.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you all should read stumbling upon happiness it deals with these issues
 

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The world I once lived in was a complete illusion. It was never real. I haven’t found a significant truth in it.
 

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I haven't read a Pook post in a while. This was a good post. I should start reading the archives again.
 
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