http://news-service.stanford.edu/news/2005/june15/jobs-061505.html
Although women are not mentioned once, the speech does a better job outlining the proper mindsets than the countless "OMG, this is what women want!" posts.
Aside from the common themes espoused here like the 'don't waste time' one, is the "do what you love."
Too many people are scared of living their own lives. We live other people's lives. We dress, talk, and act like we're in a movie or even act like someone we know. Most often, we act how we *think* we ought to be acting. Some people think that THIS is the chump, doing what society says is right. But if the Nice Guy says, "OMG, I was listening to the wrong person. I will listen to someone else now," and, like Gumby, bend and stretch to fit another ideal (the seducer, the jerk, the alpha male, take your pick), is there any true growth? The Chump is not so much the Nice Guy as it is the person who does WHATEVER to please other people all the time, be it his parents, the girls, his friends, or whatever. The Chumps fill the offices, marry on cue, and spend their lives making other people rich (their employer, their wives, their children, etc).
What if I took the DJ Bible and... BURNED IT! Oh noes! Anarchy! "Chaos, Pook! Chaos! All is lost, ALL IS LOST!"
Come sirs, have a little sense. Are you to say that if all this "information" was suddenly gone, you would turn into zombie like Nice Guys, running around giving dead plants as tokens of affection, singing off key, reciting bad poetry, and so on?
What a day it would be if a lighting from the heavens struckt the servers and zapped all seduction material away! Then there would be no Pook. No Anti-Dump. No anybody. There would only be yourself and your thoughts. As absurd as the Nice Guy is, at least he doesn't let a stranger on the Internet define his love life.
What if the 'true' system or game is framed by your own desires, dreams, and destinies? Instead of letting women define what is 'successful' with your life or not, why not use your own heart and soul? What! You say you are scared of doing this? Then it shows that you do not fear women, you fear yourself.
Going out and dealing with women or with life with no measuring stick but your own is hard. This is why most people never do it. You will ask, "Why does it feel so hard for the soul?"
Because its the first time you've used it.
Although women are not mentioned once, the speech does a better job outlining the proper mindsets than the countless "OMG, this is what women want!" posts.
Aside from the common themes espoused here like the 'don't waste time' one, is the "do what you love."
Too many people are scared of living their own lives. We live other people's lives. We dress, talk, and act like we're in a movie or even act like someone we know. Most often, we act how we *think* we ought to be acting. Some people think that THIS is the chump, doing what society says is right. But if the Nice Guy says, "OMG, I was listening to the wrong person. I will listen to someone else now," and, like Gumby, bend and stretch to fit another ideal (the seducer, the jerk, the alpha male, take your pick), is there any true growth? The Chump is not so much the Nice Guy as it is the person who does WHATEVER to please other people all the time, be it his parents, the girls, his friends, or whatever. The Chumps fill the offices, marry on cue, and spend their lives making other people rich (their employer, their wives, their children, etc).
What if I took the DJ Bible and... BURNED IT! Oh noes! Anarchy! "Chaos, Pook! Chaos! All is lost, ALL IS LOST!"
Come sirs, have a little sense. Are you to say that if all this "information" was suddenly gone, you would turn into zombie like Nice Guys, running around giving dead plants as tokens of affection, singing off key, reciting bad poetry, and so on?
What a day it would be if a lighting from the heavens struckt the servers and zapped all seduction material away! Then there would be no Pook. No Anti-Dump. No anybody. There would only be yourself and your thoughts. As absurd as the Nice Guy is, at least he doesn't let a stranger on the Internet define his love life.
What if the 'true' system or game is framed by your own desires, dreams, and destinies? Instead of letting women define what is 'successful' with your life or not, why not use your own heart and soul? What! You say you are scared of doing this? Then it shows that you do not fear women, you fear yourself.
Going out and dealing with women or with life with no measuring stick but your own is hard. This is why most people never do it. You will ask, "Why does it feel so hard for the soul?"
Because its the first time you've used it.
