"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Everyone Pulls '10's' On The Interwebz!

meldiamond

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I was checking out a PUA forum. It's funny as sh1t since at least 80% of the forum consists of trolls, spammers or dupes. A few guys with actual field report threads chime in every once in a while, but it's becoming more rare.

Anyway, some of the company spammers put up threads like: "how to pull 10's like a sleazy drug dealer!" or "looks don't matter, it's all about confidence!"

The funny thing is, they NEVER, EVER have any proof of any kind! No photos, no videos, no previous stories of reasonably authentic sounding field reports nothing.

I see the same thing on this forum. No one posts photos of their girlfriends, dates, nothing. It's all totally unreliable and probably fabricated.

Without actual names and faces and dates, it's best to treat all of this as 100% pua fan fiction.

I wish you all well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ohrein

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I've seen plenty of people post photos. Girlfriend though? Would you post a photo of your girlfriend on here? No way I'm doing that. End of the day, find advice you think sounds good, test it yourself in your life and interactions with women. Discard stuff that doesn't work, keep stuff that does and tweak it to your life, goals and personality.

It's also super easy to just google some photos and post them so they're not reliable evidence anyway. Only reliable evidence is first hand experience. Guys who also have success with knowledge can confirm some of the "rules" and some of the exceptions.

This place changed my life and a whole load of other posters. The basics are golden rules, no doubt in my mind.
 

IKO69

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Yes, it is annoying. That is why people who are genuine have sense and don't stick around for long. They deal with and get harassed constantly by bull****ters.
 

wifehunter

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No way dude I pull elevens!

 

KingofPuss

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Ha! I was a sleazy drug dealer and I can PROMISE you I've never pulled a "10". And no other drug dealer who was semi high up the rung has either.

I'm just going to throw this out there.. very few men have ever pulled a 10. I'm not even positive myself what a 10 looks like, not sure I've ever seen one. My closest guess would be Megan Fox in Transformers, the first. She was gorgeous. But still I don't think that defines a 10. In my humble opinion, a girl can't be a 10 off her looks only. Her personality, sexuality, and mannerisms all have to be taken into account. Mostly personality.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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