Bobby Rio
Don Juan
Talk my girlfriend into a threesome 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Everyone post your 2010 New Year's resolutions here
- Thread starter Trader
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Danton1975
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 17, 2009
- Messages
- 69
- Reaction score
- 5
Physical Appearance:
1. Reach 8% Body Fat
2. Gain 10 lbs of lean muscle
Business
1. Make $155,000 Gross Income
Finance
1. $40,000 Savings Account
Personal Improvement
1. Read 1 Book a week (52 Books a Year)
2. Keep a journal where I review each week
3. Plan every day, week, month
Relationships
1. Divorce HER
2. Marry HER (Yeah...I know :crazy: )
Fun
1. Visit Bahamas
2. 1 Cruise Trip (very likely to Mexico) - One week long
1. Reach 8% Body Fat
2. Gain 10 lbs of lean muscle
Business
1. Make $155,000 Gross Income
Finance
1. $40,000 Savings Account
Personal Improvement
1. Read 1 Book a week (52 Books a Year)
2. Keep a journal where I review each week
3. Plan every day, week, month
Relationships
1. Divorce HER
2. Marry HER (Yeah...I know :crazy: )
Fun
1. Visit Bahamas
2. 1 Cruise Trip (very likely to Mexico) - One week long
shortie
Don Juan
in no order of importance
1. get certifications in my field
2. research and study towards getting into an MBA program
3. keep up with all the social circles im developing now
4. buy a new car
5. start side projects that a friend has suggested
6. get over my last relationship woes
7. develop a consistent workout routine
8. Travel as much as work vacation allows
9. work on my fear of approaching girls
1. get certifications in my field
2. research and study towards getting into an MBA program
3. keep up with all the social circles im developing now
4. buy a new car
5. start side projects that a friend has suggested
6. get over my last relationship woes
7. develop a consistent workout routine
8. Travel as much as work vacation allows
9. work on my fear of approaching girls
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2007
- Messages
- 4,679
- Reaction score
- 102
well my first ever speeding ticked was gotten today = -$300 for me.. i was thinking about 300 things and driving with traffic but forgot to keep a pace car ..lol Last thing i saw was the cop close his door and ii glanced at my dash to see 80mph and i knew i was done..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
UPDATE TIME!
How have you're new years resolutions turned out so far, we're more than half way through the year now.
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?
How have you're new years resolutions turned out so far, we're more than half way through the year now.
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?synergy1 said:
So far, so fail. I helped our business finish work with one client but left early in july. Since, my life has not been where I want it so #1 was an utter failure. #2 I am proud to say has been going well. Just completed halfway through the 20 rep squat program and am on the fast track to gaining muscle mass again.
Adding a new years resolution right now: get my life back.
Commandante
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 25, 2009
- Messages
- 234
- Reaction score
- 5
1. quit smoking -> done
2. enjoy life -> oh yeah
less is more
2. enjoy life -> oh yeah
less is more
initiatorhater06
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2010
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
- 7
what I hate about being in control of my life is that my advances are not always going to be welcomed