"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everyone post your 2010 New Year's resolutions here

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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F!DELITY

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Bobby Rio said:
Talk my girlfriend into a threesome :)
haha thats funny!

1. Be more direct and ballsy with women!

2. Try out stand up comedy!
 

Danton1975

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Physical Appearance:

1. Reach 8% Body Fat
2. Gain 10 lbs of lean muscle

Business

1. Make $155,000 Gross Income

Finance

1. $40,000 Savings Account

Personal Improvement

1. Read 1 Book a week (52 Books a Year)
2. Keep a journal where I review each week
3. Plan every day, week, month

Relationships

1. Divorce HER
2. Marry HER (Yeah...I know :crazy: )

Fun

1. Visit Bahamas
2. 1 Cruise Trip (very likely to Mexico) - One week long
 

shortie

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in no order of importance

1. get certifications in my field

2. research and study towards getting into an MBA program

3. keep up with all the social circles im developing now

4. buy a new car

5. start side projects that a friend has suggested

6. get over my last relationship woes

7. develop a consistent workout routine

8. Travel as much as work vacation allows

9. work on my fear of approaching girls
 

DonGorgon

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well my first ever speeding ticked was gotten today = -$300 for me.. i was thinking about 300 things and driving with traffic but forgot to keep a pace car ..lol Last thing i saw was the cop close his door and ii glanced at my dash to see 80mph and i knew i was done..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Mad Ghost

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UPDATE TIME!

How have you're new years resolutions turned out so far, we're more than half way through the year now.

How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?
 

synergy1

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synergy1 said:
1. grow our business.
2. continue working out and getting more athletic.

Last year was good in almost all regards except losing my job. I really have no intention of changing anything up right now.
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?

So far, so fail. I helped our business finish work with one client but left early in july. Since, my life has not been where I want it so #1 was an utter failure. #2 I am proud to say has been going well. Just completed halfway through the 20 rep squat program and am on the fast track to gaining muscle mass again.

Adding a new years resolution right now: get my life back.
 

initiatorhater06

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what I hate about being in control of my life is that my advances are not always going to be welcomed
 
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