Bobby Rio
Don Juan
Talk my girlfriend into a threesome 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everyone post your 2010 New Year's resolutions here
- Thread starter Trader
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Danton1975
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 17, 2009
- Messages
- 69
- Reaction score
- 5
Physical Appearance:
1. Reach 8% Body Fat
2. Gain 10 lbs of lean muscle
Business
1. Make $155,000 Gross Income
Finance
1. $40,000 Savings Account
Personal Improvement
1. Read 1 Book a week (52 Books a Year)
2. Keep a journal where I review each week
3. Plan every day, week, month
Relationships
1. Divorce HER
2. Marry HER (Yeah...I know :crazy: )
Fun
1. Visit Bahamas
2. 1 Cruise Trip (very likely to Mexico) - One week long
1. Reach 8% Body Fat
2. Gain 10 lbs of lean muscle
Business
1. Make $155,000 Gross Income
Finance
1. $40,000 Savings Account
Personal Improvement
1. Read 1 Book a week (52 Books a Year)
2. Keep a journal where I review each week
3. Plan every day, week, month
Relationships
1. Divorce HER
2. Marry HER (Yeah...I know :crazy: )
Fun
1. Visit Bahamas
2. 1 Cruise Trip (very likely to Mexico) - One week long
shortie
Don Juan
in no order of importance
1. get certifications in my field
2. research and study towards getting into an MBA program
3. keep up with all the social circles im developing now
4. buy a new car
5. start side projects that a friend has suggested
6. get over my last relationship woes
7. develop a consistent workout routine
8. Travel as much as work vacation allows
9. work on my fear of approaching girls
1. get certifications in my field
2. research and study towards getting into an MBA program
3. keep up with all the social circles im developing now
4. buy a new car
5. start side projects that a friend has suggested
6. get over my last relationship woes
7. develop a consistent workout routine
8. Travel as much as work vacation allows
9. work on my fear of approaching girls
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2007
- Messages
- 4,679
- Reaction score
- 102
well my first ever speeding ticked was gotten today = -$300 for me.. i was thinking about 300 things and driving with traffic but forgot to keep a pace car ..lol Last thing i saw was the cop close his door and ii glanced at my dash to see 80mph and i knew i was done..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Mad Ghost
Senior Don Juan
UPDATE TIME!
How have you're new years resolutions turned out so far, we're more than half way through the year now.
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?
How have you're new years resolutions turned out so far, we're more than half way through the year now.
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?
How has it been going for you? Did you accomplish or partially accomplish some of your goals?synergy1 said:
So far, so fail. I helped our business finish work with one client but left early in july. Since, my life has not been where I want it so #1 was an utter failure. #2 I am proud to say has been going well. Just completed halfway through the 20 rep squat program and am on the fast track to gaining muscle mass again.
Adding a new years resolution right now: get my life back.
Commandante
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 25, 2009
- Messages
- 234
- Reaction score
- 5
1. quit smoking -> done
2. enjoy life -> oh yeah
less is more
2. enjoy life -> oh yeah
less is more
initiatorhater06
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2010
- Messages
- 193
- Reaction score
- 7
what I hate about being in control of my life is that my advances are not always going to be welcomed