"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everyone Loves a Secret : Basic Tip Alert

DJ_Trainee_10

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Anyone want a really basic general easy simple tip?

This tip is very basic that at times it is forgotten, or perhaps unknown to new Don Juans, so I will repeat it.

If you want her to show somewhat more attention to you, tell her you have a secret you want to tell her the next time you see her. Then when she comes up to you, and it is crucial that she comes up, to find out the secret...

...lean in toward her with your chest facing her chest and your mouth near her ear and 'pretend' like you were going to whisper something. Then pull away and say something along the lines of "Uhhh... nevermind." with a little smirk/grin.

The whole leaning in part is a small stepping stone to some kino and the whole verbal part of it makes her urning to know the secret leading to an almost endless amount of possible scenerios only a DJ could play off.

It works best with lady-friends you know in high school and perhaps college... but I wouldn't try doing it to with stranger because it might work but I doubt it.

If this was useful to at least one person... I'd like to say I'm glad to contribute.

DJ_Trainee_10
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Great tip! You're 100% right. I love doing that to HBs. Only problem is it gets annoying when they keep pestering you to tell them the secret. They never stop!
 

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VegasGuy56 said:
Great tip! You're 100% right. I love doing that to HBs. Only problem is it gets annoying when they keep pestering you to tell them the secret. They never stop!
You can turn this into some C+F

HB: Whats the secret!?

You: Your shoe is untied :D

There are many other C+F things you could say as well, be creative
 

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C&F does not = "You're shoe is untied"

My 'secret' would be...

"Rumor has it...you can't stop talking about me. People say you might just want me pretty bad."
 

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Skilla:

That is a solid C&F and it definetely sends the right message. She might say, "Oh ya, Which People are saying that?"

To which you would reply what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I reply with...


Who's talking about it? Just about the whole school. I also heard another rumor that you and I are hanging out this weekend.
 

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danno: hb, we're friends right?
hb: sure!
danno: so i can trust you if i have a problem, right?
hb: yeah...
danno: well i do have a problem, and im not sure what to do about it. but you cant tell ANYONE
hb: okay. what is it?
danno: now im serious, hb, if you tell ANYONE i will stop talkign to you.
hb: i wont tell!
danno: promise?
hb: yes! i swear!
danno: (quietly, deliberately prepares himself to deliver the news)
danno: okay. here it is. (pause). i...i dont know what to do. you see...
hb: yes??......
danno: the 7-11 down the street stopped selling vault, and its really my absolute favorite. theres no other gas stations around, and it kinda bugs me when i go in there. what should i do?

its priceless to build them up for a long time just to let them down like that, its so funny they get so anxious about it
 

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Sounds kind of funny. Could work either way though, the girl could think you're retarded, or funny as hell.
 
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