"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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everybody makes her laugh

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True. ****y+funny works. It makes them laugh. Something puzzles me. DJs state: if she's smiling she's into you. Right? Well that's my problem. That one girl is a smiling-smiley. She will laugh at everything that sparks the little fun. Everybody makes her laugh. Everybody teases her. She's very playful.

She's attracted to me. I'm different. I do cold-reading, and use a lot of psychology + kino. But it's 60 percent serious and no fun. I would like to be funny with her too. But then I will be like everybody else.

How can a DJ makes her laugh while staying apart from the others ?
Any advice ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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...make her laugh at the chumps that are trying to make her laugh...


duuuuur durrrrrrr



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bingo. Girls LOVE laughing at people especially if you are making fun of others. DO this, and it will work.
 
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"I want a girl who laughs for no one else"

Weezer lyrics, I know, but they make sense. Im just saying beware, because the girls who tend to laugh at everything are also the biggest flirts in my experience. If she can have a good time around anyone, then you arent so special, and she might have others waiting to please her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There is a difference between what she'll take lightly (laughs with) and what she'll take seriously (loves with).

There is this weird misconception that it’s a must to make a girl laugh. There is a misconception that making fun of the people she laughs with is a good thing.

If her interest level with you is already high and there isn't anyone else she is interested in, why worry? You probably the one worrying cus you haven't made her laugh as much as the rest. Then again you forget, your different from the rest and is the reason why she wants you. So why would you want to be part of the sheep flock that make her laugh?

Doesn’t hurt to lighten up either.
 
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the way to a womans heart is laughter even if it makes you look stupid. the other day when i was out shopping with my woman i walked through the mall with the stupidest jive walk. when i finally noticed that people were looking at me i kind of turned red and my woman seen it and she laughed hard and thought it was cute. you have to think walking through a mall with hundreds off people moving along normal and here i come walking like a moron. i stood out amd women find guy behavior amusing when it's not so normal.
 
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insanity, you're right. It's not that I don't make her laugh. But she doesn't laugh harder. For example, others would steal her stuff, make her run after them, treat her like their little sister, she will do the same, steal their stuff, enjoying that. It's weird, that's happen with EVERY guy or girl.

I really like her way of laughing. Taking life not too seriously and all... That's something many lack of.

I would like her to do so with me. We would have fun together. She told me "I just can make fun of you." She have too much respect for me. I hate it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Try this...while everyone else is making her laugh, try making her feel 'attraction'. If she is showing a decent amount of IL, amp it up some more.

Don't try to entertain this girl by making her laugh, set yourself apart from the rest of the crowd and try to seduce her.
 
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