"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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everybody makes her laugh

nvictor

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True. ****y+funny works. It makes them laugh. Something puzzles me. DJs state: if she's smiling she's into you. Right? Well that's my problem. That one girl is a smiling-smiley. She will laugh at everything that sparks the little fun. Everybody makes her laugh. Everybody teases her. She's very playful.

She's attracted to me. I'm different. I do cold-reading, and use a lot of psychology + kino. But it's 60 percent serious and no fun. I would like to be funny with her too. But then I will be like everybody else.

How can a DJ makes her laugh while staying apart from the others ?
Any advice ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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...make her laugh at the chumps that are trying to make her laugh...


duuuuur durrrrrrr



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bingo. Girls LOVE laughing at people especially if you are making fun of others. DO this, and it will work.
 

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"I want a girl who laughs for no one else"

Weezer lyrics, I know, but they make sense. Im just saying beware, because the girls who tend to laugh at everything are also the biggest flirts in my experience. If she can have a good time around anyone, then you arent so special, and she might have others waiting to please her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There is a difference between what she'll take lightly (laughs with) and what she'll take seriously (loves with).

There is this weird misconception that it’s a must to make a girl laugh. There is a misconception that making fun of the people she laughs with is a good thing.

If her interest level with you is already high and there isn't anyone else she is interested in, why worry? You probably the one worrying cus you haven't made her laugh as much as the rest. Then again you forget, your different from the rest and is the reason why she wants you. So why would you want to be part of the sheep flock that make her laugh?

Doesn’t hurt to lighten up either.
 

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the way to a womans heart is laughter even if it makes you look stupid. the other day when i was out shopping with my woman i walked through the mall with the stupidest jive walk. when i finally noticed that people were looking at me i kind of turned red and my woman seen it and she laughed hard and thought it was cute. you have to think walking through a mall with hundreds off people moving along normal and here i come walking like a moron. i stood out amd women find guy behavior amusing when it's not so normal.
 

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insanity, you're right. It's not that I don't make her laugh. But she doesn't laugh harder. For example, others would steal her stuff, make her run after them, treat her like their little sister, she will do the same, steal their stuff, enjoying that. It's weird, that's happen with EVERY guy or girl.

I really like her way of laughing. Taking life not too seriously and all... That's something many lack of.

I would like her to do so with me. We would have fun together. She told me "I just can make fun of you." She have too much respect for me. I hate it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Try this...while everyone else is making her laugh, try making her feel 'attraction'. If she is showing a decent amount of IL, amp it up some more.

Don't try to entertain this girl by making her laugh, set yourself apart from the rest of the crowd and try to seduce her.
 
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