"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright I am more of a "no fun unless we all get some" attitude- i try to hook my friends up with girls and sometimes go far neglecting myself..

I have friends who are ZONED in, they will ditch every one and go for the chick - even if u go "damn she kinda cute" they will go for it.

now I don't hate I respect a guy who is like that, just goes for it and if you didn't step up well you sitting out


what is your take, are you a guy like that, who will get yours any means necessary, or are you like "well if its just 1 chick i dont want my friend to be alone while i hit on her" type of thing

I am getting more into the former, getting more agressive go get mine type of thing - when you hang with the sharks you get those teeth
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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not necessarily mine though.. IMO its fair game, I find dudes who do the "i saw her first so she's mine' at the top of lame pole - if she's yours GET HER now because I will later.


but for example - i'd look for a set with 2 cute girls, for me and my friend, i wouldnt go into 1 cute 1 fat because they buddy is going to be stuck doing nothing and its gonna suck

but some guys dont give a **** and will go and you feel dragged in. Admittedly I've done that myself plenty of times too lol
 
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