"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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every guys fear "I just wanna be friends"

montybrown

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so this past week I've been trying to hook up with this chick. and finally she tells me "You know I hope I'm not giving you the wrong impression. You know I just wanna be friends right?"

She actually texted me that. Am I fvcked. I'm guessing once a chick says this, that pretty much means she needs to be nexted already. Would there anything I can do to save this? What is a good message to text her back about that? I find it ridiculous because I never did act nice towards her or anything. I just want to text her b ack saying something like "**** it. I have lots of friends already."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Thanks but I have enough friends."

Then never speak to her again.

If she comes crawling back with a change of tune then you've won and even if she doesn't you've still won as you've kept your dignity.
 

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I already texted her with "Thanks but I have enough friends" she rejected me by saying that she just wants to be friends so for me accepting it, would make me look like a doormat.

She just responded to my text saying "... what are you implying"

LOL.

I think she is feeling rejected now.
 

Charm&Style

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montybrown said:
I already texted her with "Thanks but I have enough friends" she rejected me by saying that she just wants to be friends so for me accepting it, would make me look like a doormat.

She just responded to my text saying "... what are you implying"

LOL.

I think she is feeling rejected now.
dont answer back
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No big deal, no need to feel rejected, no need to give her sh!t, she just didn't think of you that way.

Next!
 

maranathaman

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I bet there are Techniques to bring her back from the LJBF
trap. I bet "Mystery" knows howto do it. However, I don't!
 

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Would you have felt better if she told you to fvck off?

She wasn't interested in you. Saying that make you look like an idiot with hurt feelings.

Some of you have a lot to learn.
 

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Snowman23 said:
Would you have felt better if she told you to fvck off?

She wasn't interested in you. Saying that make you look like an idiot with hurt feelings.

Some of you have a lot to learn.
AMEN.

Just take it as it is. Saying something ****y like that just shows that you've been affected even more. Or if anything say "WOW, maybe I was giving off the wrong impression here.". But surely you've got to show some maturity in this and thats by not completely cutting her off just don't contact her as often as you used to. You can't win them all.
 
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Take the Big hint - she is not interested!! Just say "OK buddY, loud and clear, over!! That s CB radio lingo!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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