every guys fear "I just wanna be friends"

[montybrown]

so this past week I've been trying to hook up with this chick. and finally she tells me "You know I hope I'm not giving you the wrong impression. You know I just wanna be friends right?"

She actually texted me that. Am I fvcked. I'm guessing once a chick says this, that pretty much means she needs to be nexted already. Would there anything I can do to save this? What is a good message to text her back about that? I find it ridiculous because I never did act nice towards her or anything. I just want to text her b ack saying something like "**** it. I have lots of friends already."

 

[KontrollerX]

Reply with...

"Thanks but I have enough friends."

Then never speak to her again.

If she comes crawling back with a change of tune then you've won and even if she doesn't you've still won as you've kept your dignity.

 

[The Sperminator]

No text back yeah i want to only be friends too your not my type.

 

[montybrown]

I already texted her with "Thanks but I have enough friends" she rejected me by saying that she just wants to be friends so for me accepting it, would make me look like a doormat.

She just responded to my text saying "... what are you implying"

LOL.

I think she is feeling rejected now.

 

[Charm&Style]

I already texted her with "Thanks but I have enough friends" she rejected me by saying that she just wants to be friends so for me accepting it, would make me look like a doormat.

She just responded to my text saying "... what are you implying"

LOL.

I think she is feeling rejected now.

dont answer back

 

[Monkey]

No big deal, no need to feel rejected, no need to give her sh!t, she just didn't think of you that way.

Next!

 

[maranathaman]

I bet there are Techniques to bring her back from the LJBF
trap. I bet "Mystery" knows howto do it. However, I don't!

 

[Snowman23]

Would you have felt better if she told you to fvck off?

She wasn't interested in you. Saying that make you look like an idiot with hurt feelings.

Some of you have a lot to learn.

 

[Rebound Material]

Would you have felt better if she told you to fvck off?

She wasn't interested in you. Saying that make you look like an idiot with hurt feelings.

Some of you have a lot to learn.

AMEN.

Just take it as it is. Saying something ****y like that just shows that you've been affected even more. Or if anything say "WOW, maybe I was giving off the wrong impression here.". But surely you've got to show some maturity in this and thats by not completely cutting her off just don't contact her as often as you used to. You can't win them all.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Take the Big hint - she is not interested!! Just say "OK buddY, loud and clear, over!! That s CB radio lingo!