alright fellas.im taking this super hot chick to prom.she has had the same bf for two years now.now the way i see it is that i got a chance with her as im going to prom with her. she went to my school frosh and soph year,but got kicked out. she still has friends at my school.i figured she might have said yeah cause like she may have thought it would be fun to go since she has hella friends still at my school. how could i go about trying to get somewhere with her since she has a bf?i know that im superficial about who i go to prom with but are girls also(cause like im told im cute and stuff,but she is super hot and i know shes out of my league),but that didnt stop me from asking her to go with me. any of you guys have techiniques on movin in on her?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
every body check this out cause you may be in same spot
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well, she's obviously not out of your league if she's going to prom with you and she has a bf. She's most likely just waiting for another guy I'd say. You asked her and she said yes. Even if she has great qualities and is extremely hott, she is no different of a person than you. (Other than the obvious physical differences)
As far as hooking up, the answer is simple. Assume that she likes you and act accordingly. Straight from David D. I think. If you assume she likes you, it sets you up perfectly. Just have a great time be confident that she is into you.
As far as hooking up, the answer is simple. Assume that she likes you and act accordingly. Straight from David D. I think. If you assume she likes you, it sets you up perfectly. Just have a great time be confident that she is into you.
well that's your problem right there. You say she's out of your league, well that attitude is 100% guaranteed to fail. You gotta be confident about it, as stated above she is no different than you are. Putting on a girl on a pedestal, and putting yourself below her is definitely NOT going to work. But anyway, yeah I think you have a definite shot if you play your cards right, good luck!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ur fu(cked, ur not gonna get with her unless shes a real slut or a man hanging monkey.
Why, is she has an ltr would she agree to go back to a place she got kicked out of, with someone who doesnt consider himself her equal.
You got it, to see her friends.
And i love the way the rest of you are spouting regurgitated (rap back at him.
ahh, well, good luck
Why, is she has an ltr would she agree to go back to a place she got kicked out of, with someone who doesnt consider himself her equal.
You got it, to see her friends.
And i love the way the rest of you are spouting regurgitated (rap back at him.
ahh, well, good luck
Mr. Debonaire
Master Don Juan
i entirely agree, except on one point
if her boyfriend is really lame and she doesn't really like him anymore, then she may just be trying to look for a new man, but hasn't broken up with him yet because if she can't find anyone else he's still there.
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