"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ever tried the AFC switch

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Check this out, what if you start dating a woman, and switch constantly betwen AFC behavior and Don Juan behavior, but hear me out before you freak, by acting like an AFC i mean, tell her from the start you like her a lot, act like you really into her, show a lot of interest, and then switch to DJ and act busy and confident, i am currently dating a girl and i am in the process of turning into a DJ, so i do get my days when i have trouble having a DJ mentality and i catch myself acting a little AFC, wel, it turns out this chick is really going nuts over me, shes like WTF is up with this guy, hes like really into me yet shows confidence and lives a busy life.

Anybody done anything like this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jack McCrack

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I do this quite a bit, consciously and subconsciously. Even around my friends sometimes. They think I'm wierd now.

However I know that they talk about how pimp I am behind my back. Skills.
 

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I think master DJ´s work with this very same technique a lot, they tell women they love them and that they are the most beautiful woman in ther world, yet the women freakout because they also see that these guys are not wimps, they are out there with a life and with other posibilities.
 

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I can potentially do this with an ex of mine.

I have come to realize that I can say or do anything I want to her and I would be completely satisfied with the results since I am seeing another girl at the moment. That way, this cold-hearted bastard that hasn't had a good conversation with her for months can be a loving, sensitive, and kind-hearted chivalric knight at the same time.

It feels kinda like an act, but in a sense a slightly honest one.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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