"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ever tried the AFC switch

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Check this out, what if you start dating a woman, and switch constantly betwen AFC behavior and Don Juan behavior, but hear me out before you freak, by acting like an AFC i mean, tell her from the start you like her a lot, act like you really into her, show a lot of interest, and then switch to DJ and act busy and confident, i am currently dating a girl and i am in the process of turning into a DJ, so i do get my days when i have trouble having a DJ mentality and i catch myself acting a little AFC, wel, it turns out this chick is really going nuts over me, shes like WTF is up with this guy, hes like really into me yet shows confidence and lives a busy life.

Anybody done anything like this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I do this quite a bit, consciously and subconsciously. Even around my friends sometimes. They think I'm wierd now.

However I know that they talk about how pimp I am behind my back. Skills.
 

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I think master DJ´s work with this very same technique a lot, they tell women they love them and that they are the most beautiful woman in ther world, yet the women freakout because they also see that these guys are not wimps, they are out there with a life and with other posibilities.
 

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I can potentially do this with an ex of mine.

I have come to realize that I can say or do anything I want to her and I would be completely satisfied with the results since I am seeing another girl at the moment. That way, this cold-hearted bastard that hasn't had a good conversation with her for months can be a loving, sensitive, and kind-hearted chivalric knight at the same time.

It feels kinda like an act, but in a sense a slightly honest one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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