"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ever show this site to any friends?

Francisco d'Anconia

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Daddy The Pimp said:
yea . And most of them would laugh and make fun of me if i told them that i study these things and i read everyday day about these things :( .
Hey, people can only handle so much because of one reason or another. Everyone wasn't born to understand everything. Everyone isn't meant to perceive things the same way. There are people who can only understand what they believe. Who would truly need more help, those guys who are set in their beliefs or the guys who feel it's their duty to force them to think otherwise?
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
There's also another element to all this.

I show a friend this site and it's immediately assumed that the only reason I have game is because I sit around and study girls on the Internet. Not only could that make me look like a nerd and a weirdo, but a decent amount of my game is natural. Not all of it, but a good portion of it is. I didn't learn everything I know from this site.
Who cares what anybody thinks. Just ask him if he's ever thought about getting help/advice on how to deal with that part of his life. Observe how he reacts, then proceed using your own discretion. You don't have to say more than you need to if he isn't willing to listen.
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
Anyone ever direct a real life to this site, or is there some way I could give him advice that wouldn't come as unwelcomed or me overstepping my bounds?
I've directed almost all my friends to this site. Whether they actually come here or not, is up to them.

As to your question, don't worry, you directing friends to this site won't come across as unwelcomed and you won't come off as overstepping your bounds.
 
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