"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ever show this site to any friends?

Francisco d'Anconia

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Daddy The Pimp said:
yea . And most of them would laugh and make fun of me if i told them that i study these things and i read everyday day about these things :( .
Hey, people can only handle so much because of one reason or another. Everyone wasn't born to understand everything. Everyone isn't meant to perceive things the same way. There are people who can only understand what they believe. Who would truly need more help, those guys who are set in their beliefs or the guys who feel it's their duty to force them to think otherwise?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MikeYikes122 said:
There's also another element to all this.

I show a friend this site and it's immediately assumed that the only reason I have game is because I sit around and study girls on the Internet. Not only could that make me look like a nerd and a weirdo, but a decent amount of my game is natural. Not all of it, but a good portion of it is. I didn't learn everything I know from this site.
Who cares what anybody thinks. Just ask him if he's ever thought about getting help/advice on how to deal with that part of his life. Observe how he reacts, then proceed using your own discretion. You don't have to say more than you need to if he isn't willing to listen.
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
Anyone ever direct a real life to this site, or is there some way I could give him advice that wouldn't come as unwelcomed or me overstepping my bounds?
I've directed almost all my friends to this site. Whether they actually come here or not, is up to them.

As to your question, don't worry, you directing friends to this site won't come across as unwelcomed and you won't come off as overstepping your bounds.
 
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