"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ever seen a strange guy do this?

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Me and a mate were down town the other day sitting outside the shopping center. Anyway there are these 2 chicks (HB 7 and a 8) sitting across from us.

So this dude walks up to these girls, and he has another guy friend with him, and dude #1 introduces his mate and this character grabs HB8's hand, brings it to his lips, and kisses it.

Both girls look at each other and the one that got her hand kissed goes tomatoe red. From what I gathered the hand kisser never met these girls before.

What the fvck!? Anyone here pulled a move like this on some girls you don't even know? Seemed pretty ballsy for me, a bit spooky though... but that chick seemed taken back yet delighted. I've been thinking of trying and doing some shyt like that, but I might get slapped so I don't know.. risky...:eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maybe he was on drugs? Maybe not... I'd probably give it a shot. I've done some crazy ass things. I always just go up to any girl saying random things. The other day at Perth (Australia), I just asked a girl to turn around for me so I could read her top (which had writing on it), she did, and well... I wasn't really reading it. I was checking out her boobs.
 

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A man much wiser once said "fourtune favors the bold"

Remember this phrase when you see dj's do these kinds of things.
 

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At school, I approached two girls at the cafe` on lunch break... my scared pal ran off as he saw me approaching them... I said: "You're both very pretty girls. Just thought you should know that."

Felt pretty dumb, but I just did it for fun, once again. One of them was like: "Ooookay." But this is just a defence mechanism. They didn't have nothing to say, so that was what one of them came up with rather being silent.

It's fun though!
 
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Agh so true Mateo_g.

Holyshyt tails, I'm from Perth West Australia too, and I'm also 19! What suburb are you from? Uncanny...:eek:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rockingham bro. Yourself?
 

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Mad. It's 1:38 am, and I got tafe today. Gotta wake up at 7am and catch the damn bus at 8:11 am. You know, it's kinda fun. I like getting out everyday. There are so many girls at the school.

Oh, here I go again, being that "other" person. I think this is the real me eh?
 
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