"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ever notice married people's pics on Facebook?

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I had to be on FB for a minute and I got caught up in looking at some posts that people liked, tagged or commented on. They always have pics of them and their kids in their profile and header, but rarely of their spouse. I've seen this in young couples, middle aged couples and senior citizen couples. Now, compare this to people who are in relationships and are not married with kids. You see both parents and the kids. If they have not spawn yet, then they have each other in the pictures. What am I getting at? Well, what has changed to where prior to marriage, they are together in pics for the world to see. In marriage, it's only them or them and their offspring, rarely the profile and header pics have both and the kids.

Why is that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't think people can deny the simple, natural urge to pair up and procreate. If you remove spiritual activity from life, you're left with simple animalistic desires. Most people are just sheep with no real direction in their life besides what the culture tells them.

That said, nothing wrong with having your kids on facebook (within reason).
 

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No father will be unconditionally loved the same way a women loves her kids or pet. As Danger said husbands/fathers become an afterthought once the women's seed has sprouted. It's like a flip switches in their head where the man isn't as important anymore.
 

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I think the point being made is, often once a woman is married and has kids, the man is an afterthought.

Forgotten enough to the point that she advertises everything but him.

Something to think about.

This.^^^

In other words, once they create the children, the man's many duty was done. It's appears like the man's only use is his sperm and once the child is alive, he's devalued. If he gets on her bad side, divorce, alimony, child support, division of assets AND playing for the home the family lives in, while he's barred from there. Not to mention, limited time with his kids. This has a profound effect on both girls and boys. What proof? Look at what the millenials and gen-z have turned into. Men are emotional panzies. The ladies are promiscious, have their own money, jump from c0ck to c0ck and then want to appear as the good little girl in white for their wedding day. White means purity. You'd have to go to Utah these days for that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think they quit posting hubby’s pics at the same time they start to find him unattractive. The exact same time they start cheating on him and/or start looking for his replacement.
 

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I think they quit posting hubby’s pics at the same time they start to find him unattractive. The exact same time they start cheating on him and/or start looking for his replacement.
By then the woman has also lost her looks and has run out of options as well. Whatever her replacement options, they can't be all that good.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Another thing you guys should watch, and I couldn't believe it. If I found out about this and I was even blue pilled, I would had flipped. But, Rich's video below. It's a diddy.

 

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So what's the alternative to marriage? Complaining for the rest of your life on the internet to sosuave anons.
Pick your poison dude. I just provide the information. You still have free will. You can jump down the rabbit hole and take your chances or proceed in life knowing what you are getting in to. If you want to get married, go ahead. Just don't say no one tried to show you the risks at hand.
 

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Pick your poison dude. I just provide the information. You still have free will. You can jump down the rabbit hole and take your chances or proceed in life knowing what you are getting in to. If you want to get married, go ahead. Just don't say no one tried to show you the risks at hand.
Why do you claim to be so eager to discover and propagate the truth about women but not about race? It seems like you are far more eager to talk about women than race or nationality:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/the-growing-number-of-life-long-solo-men.258398/#post-2630321

The so-called truth seekers refuse to even investigate the lies regarding New Zealand's fake mass shooting while they still can before it's memory holed:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/mosque-shooting-49-dead.258136/#post-2629539

So I'll say the same to you: you still have free will and have the opportunity to investigate the truth about race and false flags while you still can. You can swallow the lies all you want, but remember I gave you the chance to discover the truth.
 
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