"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ever met a real player? (Non-sosuave member)

Ever met a real player? (Non-sosuave member)

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I haven't but i know several guys who know pretty much about girls.

If you have met them or talked to them in person, post your questions and their replies.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I knew several guys who qualify as being called a player. One of them is a very good friend, but i never really asked him any questions on how he does it because its very obvious. for example at a party he'll pick a girl he wants to mack on, then he does and then he takes her to another room or a bathroom to "have a talk in quiet". 10-15 minutes later he runs out already half undressed and starts asking everyone for a spare condom. he knows what and who he wants then he goes for it no matter how hot the girl is, simple as that.
 
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nice
 
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I knew one briefly. To put it simply - the guy has some steel cahoonas! No matter how hot the chick was, she was still approachable for him. He also had great convo skills - he freestyle raps. Knows exactly what to say.
 
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at least 5 people at my school are natural "players." Always are C&F, get whoever they want, and even the goth, ugly, un-popular, insecure girls like them.

-Disconnect,

If he freestyle raps, then he's a "playa" not "player." haha:cool:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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5 players are your school? are you going to High School? I think there would be more.
 
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Wow, talk about a stupid topic.
 
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How is this topic stupid? You know, if you got a problem then why did you even post here anyway? To increase your post or what? Grow up and shut up.


I don't really believe that there are players unless they have been with any girl and have gotten number after a first conversation with that girl. I've met some guys who are pretty cool and they get girls to hug them. I noticed that they first started off by finding a way to start a conversation with a girl, then the next day the guy would talk to them like they are now cool with the guy. Then a week later or so, the guy would get hugs, probaly kisses. I've seen this before and i noticed that the one thing you need in order to get hugs and kisses is by your body language. Then comes your personality.
 
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"No matter how hot the chick was, she was still approachable for him."

That's an attitude of "Everyone come to me".
 
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Hmmm...

My freshman roommate, Shawn. Had a different girl over practically every day. Would be on the phone with 2 different girls on average, at the same time. Had a wardrobe full of stuff they bought for him.

I still feel bad about the time I had to work on a final while he had one of his ladies over. But hell, he got enough ass as it was.:cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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are you still roommates with him?
 
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Watched him go from AFC to DJ over a few years. Watched him try all kinds of things and weed out some, play up others. Interesting process to watch.
 
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That's cool.. want to share some stories with us?
 
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I got a recently turned 19 yr old friend from Bahamas. Lost his virginity @ 13 i think, over 40 women slept with, pulled a stripped on his 19th birthday, made out with the engaged bartender @ the club, the other bartender tried to give him head in the back n he declined, n he has the other other bartenders #. He had gurls fighting over him the 2nd nite he went to the club
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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want to share stories?
 
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