"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ever met a real player? (Non-sosuave member)

Ever met a real player? (Non-sosuave member)

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I haven't but i know several guys who know pretty much about girls.

If you have met them or talked to them in person, post your questions and their replies.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I knew several guys who qualify as being called a player. One of them is a very good friend, but i never really asked him any questions on how he does it because its very obvious. for example at a party he'll pick a girl he wants to mack on, then he does and then he takes her to another room or a bathroom to "have a talk in quiet". 10-15 minutes later he runs out already half undressed and starts asking everyone for a spare condom. he knows what and who he wants then he goes for it no matter how hot the girl is, simple as that.
 
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nice
 
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I knew one briefly. To put it simply - the guy has some steel cahoonas! No matter how hot the chick was, she was still approachable for him. He also had great convo skills - he freestyle raps. Knows exactly what to say.
 
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at least 5 people at my school are natural "players." Always are C&F, get whoever they want, and even the goth, ugly, un-popular, insecure girls like them.

-Disconnect,

If he freestyle raps, then he's a "playa" not "player." haha:cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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5 players are your school? are you going to High School? I think there would be more.
 
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Wow, talk about a stupid topic.
 
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How is this topic stupid? You know, if you got a problem then why did you even post here anyway? To increase your post or what? Grow up and shut up.


I don't really believe that there are players unless they have been with any girl and have gotten number after a first conversation with that girl. I've met some guys who are pretty cool and they get girls to hug them. I noticed that they first started off by finding a way to start a conversation with a girl, then the next day the guy would talk to them like they are now cool with the guy. Then a week later or so, the guy would get hugs, probaly kisses. I've seen this before and i noticed that the one thing you need in order to get hugs and kisses is by your body language. Then comes your personality.
 
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"No matter how hot the chick was, she was still approachable for him."

That's an attitude of "Everyone come to me".
 
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Hmmm...

My freshman roommate, Shawn. Had a different girl over practically every day. Would be on the phone with 2 different girls on average, at the same time. Had a wardrobe full of stuff they bought for him.

I still feel bad about the time I had to work on a final while he had one of his ladies over. But hell, he got enough ass as it was.:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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are you still roommates with him?
 
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Watched him go from AFC to DJ over a few years. Watched him try all kinds of things and weed out some, play up others. Interesting process to watch.
 
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That's cool.. want to share some stories with us?
 
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I got a recently turned 19 yr old friend from Bahamas. Lost his virginity @ 13 i think, over 40 women slept with, pulled a stripped on his 19th birthday, made out with the engaged bartender @ the club, the other bartender tried to give him head in the back n he declined, n he has the other other bartenders #. He had gurls fighting over him the 2nd nite he went to the club
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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want to share stories?
 
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