Omni
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And then you can brag to Bubba and Rocko about what a tough guy you are as they're bending you over the sink in your prison cell... while she's out with one of the cops that came when she had you arrested for hitting her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ever lost a girl to an AFC?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
Just as a semantical point, doesn't an AFC (Average, Frustrated Chump) cease to be an AFC when he hooks up with a hot broad, since he's no longer frustrated at that point?
Gangster Of Love
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Perhaps you are more AFC than those AFC's and don't even realize it.
pimpfromdayone
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I was just about to post something similar to this about how some girls don't respond well to "DJ" behavior. I was gaming this one girl being my usual coc-ky funny self, the whole nine yards, and she just didn't seem to get it. She is about a 9 too, at least on my scale. She seems really nice though, and not as stupid as most girls, so maybe that is the reason, or maybe it is because she is religious, I don't know.
I love how all these people trying to sell things (like David DeAngelo) will tell guys a.) appearance doesn't matter at all and b.) this same behavior will work on ALL girls
Bullshiste. You have to be flexible enough to appeal to each girl differently. The first rule of thumb: the hotter the girl, the more coc-ky you should be, and the harder you should game her: more neg. hits, ignoring her, etc.
If the girl is cute, but not really chased by a lot of guys, you should probably be easier on her. If she is average, this stuff still works, but tone it down a bit. If she is ugly, no game needed, haha. Every so often you're gonna find a nice, intelligent girl who doesn't respond as well to this stuff, but it will still work, to an extent. But, I think as long as you're not a complete ******* you should be fine. Just know that you should treat every girl differently. A true DJ has this skill down really well.
I love how all these people trying to sell things (like David DeAngelo) will tell guys a.) appearance doesn't matter at all and b.) this same behavior will work on ALL girls
Bullshiste. You have to be flexible enough to appeal to each girl differently. The first rule of thumb: the hotter the girl, the more coc-ky you should be, and the harder you should game her: more neg. hits, ignoring her, etc.
If the girl is cute, but not really chased by a lot of guys, you should probably be easier on her. If she is average, this stuff still works, but tone it down a bit. If she is ugly, no game needed, haha. Every so often you're gonna find a nice, intelligent girl who doesn't respond as well to this stuff, but it will still work, to an extent. But, I think as long as you're not a complete ******* you should be fine. Just know that you should treat every girl differently. A true DJ has this skill down really well.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
donovan
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I think its been answered. Sometimes a girl that appears to be good looking goes for a AFC. I know the reason is that she herself is really not very successful with guys. She may appear in control, but deep down inside she is a freakshow waiting to happen. Go with the previous advice, she's defintely not worth it... I started regretting when i started with the DJ material, but it works out better in the end...
Oh. and being a DJ in a marriage will work, but tone it down.
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bbestar
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I guess you haven't been married have you...Originally posted by Omni
And then you can brag to Bubba and Rocko about what a tough guy you are as they're bending you over the sink in your prison cell... while she's out with one of the cops that came when she had you arrested for hitting her.
Sometimes you need to feel pain to push you in the right direction
To tell you, If my dad just yelled at me but didn't lay a hand on me... You know what I would do... Fight back and leave..
If what he did is yell at me with put downs and painful hits... I would submit and change my ways...
If he yells at you saying, I DON"T NEED YOU, u want out.. GET OUT... Then you will do all you can to get back where it used to be...
Growning up like this taught me to be Dependent on my parents...
And this kept the structure of the family for over 20 years..
My parents are still together and happy then ever...
50% divorce rate, Who DO I Blame?
1. The Church, believers in Christ
2. Society
3. Men in General
Omni
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I've been married for nearly a decade; how about YOU?Originally posted by bbestar
I guess you haven't been married have you...
Hit an adult, and you'll get arrested if they call the cops, because they won't buy your line of reasoning any more than I do... and neither will the judge.Originally posted by bbestar
Sometimes you need to feel pain to push you in the right direction
pimpfromdayone
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That's screwed up man. If you need to be yelled at or hit in order to be motivated to behave right, that is messed up. #1 has absolutely nothing to do with high divorce rates btw. All that it has established is marriage, and you can't then say it causes divorces.