Omni
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And then you can brag to Bubba and Rocko about what a tough guy you are as they're bending you over the sink in your prison cell... while she's out with one of the cops that came when she had you arrested for hitting her.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ever lost a girl to an AFC?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
Just as a semantical point, doesn't an AFC (Average, Frustrated Chump) cease to be an AFC when he hooks up with a hot broad, since he's no longer frustrated at that point?
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Perhaps you are more AFC than those AFC's and don't even realize it.
pimpfromdayone
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I was just about to post something similar to this about how some girls don't respond well to "DJ" behavior. I was gaming this one girl being my usual coc-ky funny self, the whole nine yards, and she just didn't seem to get it. She is about a 9 too, at least on my scale. She seems really nice though, and not as stupid as most girls, so maybe that is the reason, or maybe it is because she is religious, I don't know.
I love how all these people trying to sell things (like David DeAngelo) will tell guys a.) appearance doesn't matter at all and b.) this same behavior will work on ALL girls
Bullshiste. You have to be flexible enough to appeal to each girl differently. The first rule of thumb: the hotter the girl, the more coc-ky you should be, and the harder you should game her: more neg. hits, ignoring her, etc.
If the girl is cute, but not really chased by a lot of guys, you should probably be easier on her. If she is average, this stuff still works, but tone it down a bit. If she is ugly, no game needed, haha. Every so often you're gonna find a nice, intelligent girl who doesn't respond as well to this stuff, but it will still work, to an extent. But, I think as long as you're not a complete ******* you should be fine. Just know that you should treat every girl differently. A true DJ has this skill down really well.
I love how all these people trying to sell things (like David DeAngelo) will tell guys a.) appearance doesn't matter at all and b.) this same behavior will work on ALL girls
Bullshiste. You have to be flexible enough to appeal to each girl differently. The first rule of thumb: the hotter the girl, the more coc-ky you should be, and the harder you should game her: more neg. hits, ignoring her, etc.
If the girl is cute, but not really chased by a lot of guys, you should probably be easier on her. If she is average, this stuff still works, but tone it down a bit. If she is ugly, no game needed, haha. Every so often you're gonna find a nice, intelligent girl who doesn't respond as well to this stuff, but it will still work, to an extent. But, I think as long as you're not a complete ******* you should be fine. Just know that you should treat every girl differently. A true DJ has this skill down really well.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
donovan
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I think its been answered. Sometimes a girl that appears to be good looking goes for a AFC. I know the reason is that she herself is really not very successful with guys. She may appear in control, but deep down inside she is a freakshow waiting to happen. Go with the previous advice, she's defintely not worth it... I started regretting when i started with the DJ material, but it works out better in the end...
Oh. and being a DJ in a marriage will work, but tone it down.
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bbestar
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I guess you haven't been married have you...Originally posted by Omni
And then you can brag to Bubba and Rocko about what a tough guy you are as they're bending you over the sink in your prison cell... while she's out with one of the cops that came when she had you arrested for hitting her.
Sometimes you need to feel pain to push you in the right direction
To tell you, If my dad just yelled at me but didn't lay a hand on me... You know what I would do... Fight back and leave..
If what he did is yell at me with put downs and painful hits... I would submit and change my ways...
If he yells at you saying, I DON"T NEED YOU, u want out.. GET OUT... Then you will do all you can to get back where it used to be...
Growning up like this taught me to be Dependent on my parents...
And this kept the structure of the family for over 20 years..
My parents are still together and happy then ever...
50% divorce rate, Who DO I Blame?
1. The Church, believers in Christ
2. Society
3. Men in General
Omni
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I've been married for nearly a decade; how about YOU?Originally posted by bbestar
I guess you haven't been married have you...
Hit an adult, and you'll get arrested if they call the cops, because they won't buy your line of reasoning any more than I do... and neither will the judge.Originally posted by bbestar
Sometimes you need to feel pain to push you in the right direction
pimpfromdayone
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That's screwed up man. If you need to be yelled at or hit in order to be motivated to behave right, that is messed up. #1 has absolutely nothing to do with high divorce rates btw. All that it has established is marriage, and you can't then say it causes divorces.