"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever Look Back On Your Very 1st Post?

VladPatton

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So we're in a new year and it's a fresh page. Forget all the rejections and the biznitches that didn't wanna play sexy time with you. We all are better by way of discussing our adventures here, right?

Have you ever bothered to ever look back at your very first SoSuave post to see how far you've come? This is more for the guys who have 6+ months here. I imagine the older the post the more fascinating it would be for you to re-read.

I, myself, have a completely new outlook, women, have a lot more confidence, and a better understanding of human interaction in general. My anxiety around females is gone, and made a great friend name indifference.

Would love to hear how some of your mindsets have changed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no, because I'm pretty sure it was a long ass post about my oneitis girl. the advice i got in the thread was, just to move on and forget her.

so a little while after i post it. we end up fooking for 6 weeks.

the advice was on point because we never dated just ****ed. we ain't even friends any more. checked her facebook profile out the other day and it wasn't good.

i really need to stop stalking peoples profile.
 
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