"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ever Look Back On Your Very 1st Post?

VladPatton

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So we're in a new year and it's a fresh page. Forget all the rejections and the biznitches that didn't wanna play sexy time with you. We all are better by way of discussing our adventures here, right?

Have you ever bothered to ever look back at your very first SoSuave post to see how far you've come? This is more for the guys who have 6+ months here. I imagine the older the post the more fascinating it would be for you to re-read.

I, myself, have a completely new outlook, women, have a lot more confidence, and a better understanding of human interaction in general. My anxiety around females is gone, and made a great friend name indifference.

Would love to hear how some of your mindsets have changed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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no, because I'm pretty sure it was a long ass post about my oneitis girl. the advice i got in the thread was, just to move on and forget her.

so a little while after i post it. we end up fooking for 6 weeks.

the advice was on point because we never dated just ****ed. we ain't even friends any more. checked her facebook profile out the other day and it wasn't good.

i really need to stop stalking peoples profile.
 
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