"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ever Look Back On Your Very 1st Post?

VladPatton

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So we're in a new year and it's a fresh page. Forget all the rejections and the biznitches that didn't wanna play sexy time with you. We all are better by way of discussing our adventures here, right?

Have you ever bothered to ever look back at your very first SoSuave post to see how far you've come? This is more for the guys who have 6+ months here. I imagine the older the post the more fascinating it would be for you to re-read.

I, myself, have a completely new outlook, women, have a lot more confidence, and a better understanding of human interaction in general. My anxiety around females is gone, and made a great friend name indifference.

Would love to hear how some of your mindsets have changed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no, because I'm pretty sure it was a long ass post about my oneitis girl. the advice i got in the thread was, just to move on and forget her.

so a little while after i post it. we end up fooking for 6 weeks.

the advice was on point because we never dated just ****ed. we ain't even friends any more. checked her facebook profile out the other day and it wasn't good.

i really need to stop stalking peoples profile.
 
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