"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ever have those days... (loneliness)

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I seem to go into bouts of depression/loneliness/lack of confidence as soon as I get rejected a few times in a row.

Example - Last week was good. Felt like I was on the top of the world. ****ed a new girl, got some numbers, almost ****ed two other girls, had some good dates... but then this week rolls around and it seems nothing goes my way...

One girl I met at a club that I thought I definitely was going to **** for sure didn't answer my call or text... is basically ignoring me. Another girl who I almost ****ed on day 1 seemed to be less interested on day 2 (and as a result didn't **** her). And then to cap it off, a girl I had an amazing day 1 with yesterday did not answer my call today.

So.. this all caused me to be really depressed today. I wish my confidence didn't all come from how girls treat me, but it does. My loneliness was at it's peak this afternoon so I called up about 5 girls and basically begged them to hang out with me (including a very ugly one... far below my standards)... all were 'busy'. This caused my mood to get even worse.

Does anyone else get like this from time to time? How do you combat it? Usually I'm OK, but every now and then **** like this happens to me. I've found that reading helps... exercising helps a little bit (but only temporary)... tanning/sunlight helps (but I dont like to harm my skin)... and going out with friends helps (but I'm self employed, and my friends arent, so sometimes this isnt an option).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the fact that a girl doesnt answer a text or a call after she gave up her number has become laughable to me... shake it off, go out and look for more #'s.
 
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I can connect with this. It happens sometimes. When things go your way you feel great - when things are ****ty your mood drops.

You have to remember that its all transient, the good times and the bad - they all pass. Emotions come and go like this. Someone once told me - dont identify with the waves, but be the ocean underneath the ways.

You have to remember that women arent everything. Ideally we should get to a point where women are not the determining factor that make us happy or sad. Have other things going for you in your life and other goals to shoot for, that can occupy some of your time and affect your mood. Being independent and happy with yourself is key - because true happiness comes from within.

Hope that helps.
 
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