"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ever have one of those days?

amazingswayze

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You wake up, and think about your day. First comes breakfast. You chill for a bit watching TV, reading SS, listening to music, etc. After you've been up for a few hours, you shower and start looking for plans.
I just want to get out of the house today. I called up almost 10 of my friends, nobody was available. Usually I make plans no problem. I OD'd on sosuave today. So bored. I don't have the motivation to play with Logic Pro X which is what I really want to do, but it gets me so frustrated. I want to learn how to produce but I'm not making any significant progress. So bored. Just one of those days...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZpUYjpKg9KY
Ever have one of those days?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Casillas

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I know that feel bro, you should try to go out alone and enjoy yourself more.
 

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Sometimes I feel the same way. My friends don't want to go group activities and go to the same bar every night :yawn:

I want to meet new people and socialize but I don't know how to do it alone. Its always better when there is someone with you even if he doesn't know what he is doing :D

Usually i get to clean my condo or do some work, read a book or go out with my bike when there is no one else to hang with but I often miss people diversity.
 

Casillas

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fafo said:
Sometimes I feel the same way. My friends don't want to go group activities and go to the same bar every night :yawn:

I want to meet new people and socialize but I don't know how to do it alone. Its always better when there is someone with you even if he doesn't know what he is doing :D

Usually i get to clean my condo or do some work, read a book or go out with my bike when there is no one else to hang with but I often miss people diversity.
I will recomend you to go out to a bar or to a mall, and talk to all the girls you see (You can ask for directions or the time) it doesn't matter if they are ugly at first, because the purpose is to get comfortable with your own company and knowing what are you able to do alone. Maybe at the end of the day you will get some girls number ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hockeyfreak79

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Casillas said:
I will recomend you to go out to a bar or to a mall, and talk to all the girls you see (You can ask for directions or the time) it doesn't matter if they are ugly at first, because the purpose is to get comfortable with your own company and knowing what are you able to do alone. Maybe at the end of the day you will get some girls number ;)
This^^ I've been doing this since the 20's. Yes sometimes in the winter months OP but summer months hell NO I look forward to days off to just relax.
 

kraytkiller

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Don't make your life and your plans revolve around other people doing them with you. Become self sufficient, go try something new or do something you enjoy alone. And then either meet someone new, or don't.

You don't need others to have fun. Or go out.
 
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