“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ever had the best sex, but with the wrong person?

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Any of you guys had a plate, where the sex was literally the best?

The sexual chemistry, connection was insane, but you know you have to drop that plate at some point as she is not for the long term.

It's like coming off a drug, in my experience it takes a little time to adjust to average sex again with an average plate.

What a bummer!
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Any girl that was crazy in the past, however, IMO having sex with fit girls is amazing. My main plate now is very fit and she can go for hours like it's nothing
Is she for the long term (LTR) if not... Then how will you feel dropping that good sex after she has expired her time with you
 

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Is she for the long term (LTR) if not... Then how will you feel dropping that good sex after she has expired her time with you
It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
 

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It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
You're going to have to adjust, when she drops off.. When the sex is that good, it can take some time to meet another another plate that matches up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You're going to have to adjust, when she drops off.. When the sex is that good, it can take some time to meet another another plate that matches up.
Like I said I'm not pressed about it mate' I have been in this game long enough to know it works in ebbs and flows. Sex doesn't motivate me honestly what makes the sex with her good is that we can actually shoot the shyt and she is a cool girl to be around
 

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Any of you guys had a plate, where the sex was literally the best?

The sexual chemistry, connection was insane, but you know you have to drop that plate at some point as she is not for the long term.

It's like coming off a drug, in my experience it takes a little time to adjust to average sex again with an average plate.

What a bummer!
Yep. Ex gf who is probably BPD. And then there was the psychologist who should be seeing a shrink. Who ironically messaged me 2 days ago out of the blue.

All the ones that have some mental issues are prime in the sack. Recreational use/fvck and toss only. But its hard to do that because they are certainly addicting.
 

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Yup I had a crazy ex gf, toxic. Wild in bed though. Should have just been a plate. Live and learn.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I did stay with a toxic ex for a while and the sex was good, but that was more so I couldn't replace her with anyone better at the time.
 

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Almost every guy who has dated enough has had this because the crazy women are usually the ones who use sex as their way to get guys to stay and deal with their craziness because they know without it there would be no reason for them to stick around.

Essentially they weaponize sex against men for their own benefit.
 
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Almost every guy who has dated enough has had this because the crazy women are usually the ones who use sex as their way to get guys to stay and deal with their craziness because they know without it there would be no reason for them to stick around.

Essentially they weaponize sex against men for their own benefit.
That is true, all the crazy girls are fun in the sack(speaking from personal experience) but I also would say women who are fit or work out a lot tend to be amazing in the sack as well. Which makes sense cause working out increases libido
 
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That is true, all the crazy girls are fun in the sack(speaking from personal experience) but I also would say women who are fit or work out a lot tend to be amazing in the sack as well. Which makes sense cause working out increases libido
Yes that's true, but I had a cross fit chick with an amazing body who worked out so much she was too tired for me pounding her for the length of time that I would be going at it and always asked me how I had so much energy :lol:
 

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That is true, all the crazy girls are fun in the sack(speaking from personal experience) but I also would say women who are fit or work out a lot tend to be amazing in the sack as well. Which makes sense cause working out increases libido
I like my woman healthy & relatively skinny, but I am just not attracted to that fitness babe type lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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Best sex I ever had was a ONS with a girl who was clearly not over her recent ex. There was a huge sense of urgency to what she was doing in the bedroom and it made it feel next-level great. But she was clearly crazy and had the obvious ex issues.
 

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It's a casual thing we both know and it was established like that from the beginning (she got out of a marriage and works overnight as a nurse, doesn't want to be in a relationship which is fine with me as I'm not looking to be a rebound)

If it ends it ends, plenty more other women out there. Just haven't met her/them yet
Nurse? Is she Filipina? Latina? lol
 

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Like I said I'm not pressed about it mate' I have been in this game long enough to know it works in ebbs and flows. Sex doesn't motivate me honestly what makes the sex with her good is that we can actually shoot the shyt and she is a cool girl to be around
Yeh I get you. I try not to connect with them
You adjust by staying on monk mode and going cold turkey without sex. Eventually your will start to forget how good the sex is, and you will feel okay with fvcking other women.

At least for me, it happened by stopping sex all together until I wanted it with another person.


I got a bridge to sell you and its 50% off.

You are already hooked on lady heroine, haha its cool tho.
Well I did a 6 months phase of Semen Retention one year ago.. Better than monk mode, after a while the urge for sex went away. I could take it or leave it.
 

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Yeh I get you. I try not to connect with them


Well I did a 6 months phase of Semen Retention one year ago.. Better than monk mode, after a while the urge for sex went away. I could take it or leave it.
Do you practice some sort of Tantric, Yogic technique that can make you last for more than an hour?
 

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I like my woman healthy & relatively skinny, but I am just not attracted to that fitness babe type lol.
I am into the fitness babe type. Too much muscularity is a turn off. Women don't typically reach that point unless they start using some interesting substances.
 
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