thelonewolflegend
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Happened to me and not sure exactly why she said she had a great time on our date and it seemed fine to me.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ever had a chick tell you on after the first date she didnt feel a connection?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
thelonewolflegend
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LOL that's funny. Any tips on getting the vagina to tingle?
thelonewolflegend
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I mean what are you supposed to do on date I show them good time talk to them ask them questions crack jokes touch them here and there on arm and try give them kiss end of date try bring them home etc...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
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Do you enjoy your life? Do you appreciate every single bit of it? The smell and beauty of flowers, the joy of life itself?
I'm troubleshooting you.
YES or NO?
Another question, do you even concern yourself with such little things as smell and beauty of flowers?
I'm troubleshooting you.
YES or NO?
Another question, do you even concern yourself with such little things as smell and beauty of flowers?
thelonewolflegend
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Not 100% But I do enjoy life and no I don't concerns myself with little things like that.
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Bring George Clooney along with you.thelonewolflegend said:
Tictac
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Sure.
You should thank her and move on.
She saved you time, money and brain damage.
You should thank her and move on.
She saved you time, money and brain damage.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thatdude8708
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Of course he's trolling. Look at all of his threads..either he's seriously mentally ill, or he just can't read because he asks the most rhetorical questions that have been answered a MILLION times alreadyMtnMan said:
Thorninmyside
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Quoted for truth. Seriously, dude's driveway doesn't quite reach the road if you catch my drift.Thatdude8708 said: