thelonewolflegend
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Happened to me and not sure exactly why she said she had a great time on our date and it seemed fine to me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ever had a chick tell you on after the first date she didnt feel a connection?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
thelonewolflegend
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LOL that's funny. Any tips on getting the vagina to tingle?
thelonewolflegend
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I mean what are you supposed to do on date I show them good time talk to them ask them questions crack jokes touch them here and there on arm and try give them kiss end of date try bring them home etc...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backseatjuan
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Do you enjoy your life? Do you appreciate every single bit of it? The smell and beauty of flowers, the joy of life itself?
I'm troubleshooting you.
YES or NO?
Another question, do you even concern yourself with such little things as smell and beauty of flowers?
I'm troubleshooting you.
YES or NO?
Another question, do you even concern yourself with such little things as smell and beauty of flowers?
thelonewolflegend
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Not 100% But I do enjoy life and no I don't concerns myself with little things like that.
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Bring George Clooney along with you.thelonewolflegend said:
Tictac
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Sure.
You should thank her and move on.
She saved you time, money and brain damage.
You should thank her and move on.
She saved you time, money and brain damage.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thatdude8708
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Of course he's trolling. Look at all of his threads..either he's seriously mentally ill, or he just can't read because he asks the most rhetorical questions that have been answered a MILLION times alreadyMtnMan said:
Thorninmyside
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Quoted for truth. Seriously, dude's driveway doesn't quite reach the road if you catch my drift.Thatdude8708 said: