"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ever get tired of plates?

Groverz

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Had one girl over Tuesday and one Wednesday and honestly it left me a bit sad. It was their ideas to come over and netflix and chill but I have no emotional connection to them and the random hookups just make me miss an actual connection even more. Anyone else feel like this? Maybe it's my age but I am over the random hookups, sometimes it's fun just for a confidence boost or a challenge.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Misrah

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If its not fun, stop doing it. Drop all your plates. Start fresh, and only approach / attempt to date women who are stirring your emotions. If you are not feeling it after the first date, next them. Your rates will go down (as you focus on quality) but if it is important to you - go for it.
 

mrgoodstuff

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I don't personally understand why a one-night stand has to be regarded as shallow and lacking quality and emotion. The best ones I've had were one-and-dones.

Beware the dogma of societal mores.
He said it's more fun for him if there is a emotional connection. Not just boning a warm body... If that's how he feels he may have past thru the phase and wants something more fulfilling for HIM.
 

parkthebus

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Perhaps it's time to look for a relationship that can offer you a different dynamic. Whatever makes you feel good.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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You need to find happiness in yourself man. I know exactly what you go through because I struggle with the same exact thing. I guess thats the reason I get into a lot of relationships. Learn to make your self happy and just use girls for sex until you find that one that is "perfect" by your own criteria.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Berom

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You need to find happiness in yourself man.
This. Also, it seems like maybe those two women aren't quality women. I mean quality in regards to what you want in a woman.
 

Tenacity

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Ever get tired of plates?
Yes, all of the time lol. We are going through a unique time in my opinion, because as I have pointed out the vast majority of women are only good for Sex and Companionship benefits. The issue occurs when you just don't "feel like" hanging around women (thus the companionship benefit offers aren't intriguing anymore) and you are tired of fvcking them for right now, so what's left? You will realize that very little is left.

Don't get me wrong, some girls can provide good conversation, debate, and might even help you out here or there, or teach you a couple of things. But for the life of me, these chicks are extremely rare unicorns in this market.
 
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