"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ever get scared off by a chick who comes on too strong?

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So I was on a first date tonight and this girl was pretty hot, but she at one point said "I just got divorced and all I want is sex." Then she said "you can take me home right now if you want to". Something didn't seem right. I said "well I'd like to get to know you better" and she said "Please, please, PLEASE take me home right now! You don't have to call me tomorrow, you don't have to email, you don't even have to send me a text message!".

I left tracks.

Now I know how women feel when a guy starts humping their leg after 5 minutes. They say we can't value that which comes too easily.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Unless that girl was diseased, fat, or ugly as sin, you are nuts my good sir. I would LOVE if a woman said that to me.
 
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I wouldn't say "scared off", but more of "weirded out" kind of way. The problem lies in this desperation that they vibe off, and I think healthy individuals are just uncomfortable when they acts this way. (Usually the unattractive males)
 
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This girl was about a 7, and came from a rich family. My last girlfriend was an 8 and came from a poor family, but she made me wait 8 weeks to have sex, and I still think about her every day after months.
 
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I know EXACTLY how you feel! I've had a bunch of girls like this and it just turns me off! If it's too easy, I don't want it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes.

Met a hot girl (as in actually hot), she liked me for some reason, not that I did anything really, she just took a liking to me. I kept touching her ass, well we parted ways but I asked for her contact details etc. I spoke to her later and she said she wants to go out with me. I say yes. Arrange to meet up with her again at the place where I first met her... Go there, she's REALLY into me, it turned me RIGHT off. I broke it off with her. When I break it off she goes back to how she was before so I kick myself hard and ask her out again. Same exact thing happens, she actually kicked me in the balls and left (no joke).
 
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Plenty of times. Especially if the girl is 7 or above. It makes me very suspicious. If a girl does most of the work & asks most of the questions I'll take it but if 2 seconds into meeting me she's already trying to feel on me I think something is HORRIBLY wrong.
 
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It is called a 'red flag.' That feelings you felt, being creeped out, is your gut telling you something is whacked. You were good to run. You likely saved yourself a lot of problems.

If the behavior isn't normal, there's a reason for that. BPD/HPD who knows. But crazy nonetheless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I had a girl basically rape me once she wanted it so bad. Does that count? But I have to say I wasn't scared, just confused about what was going on and if she was serious.
 
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