"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ever get a girl pissed for not number closing?

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sharpshooter

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Like say you're at a far away town, or for some reason just didn't number close but end up just saying laaaaater after getting her name, info, and even some kinoing. I've had this happen a couple of times where I just walk off, sorta look back..and the girl has an angry p'od face haha.

Also, is it alright to feel guilty in this type of situation? Sometimes the girl is attractive and i'm hitting it off with her, but for whatever reason I didn't number close. It's like i'm killing my own desire. I'm not afraid to get the number, it's not a challenge for me at all..it's no big deal. But sometimse it's like I just don't have the desire to get it and I feel guilty about it later on. Is that normal?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It usually happens when a guy is afraid, gay or wusses out.


When I didn't ask for a number it was because I was afraid and wussed out. No futher explanation.
 
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Nah not closing a number isn't that big of a deal at all. Some times I'm saying in my head "this girl is way cute...but I'm NEVER going to call her" so I won't ask. Why, you may ask? Becasue I don't have time to chase every girl I meet.

I use to spread myself way way too thin and let me tell you, that's definately a bad thing. If you don't set aside some spare time for yourself girls will drive you absolutly nuts and you'll end up not wanting to do anything with any of them after a while... I can testify to this.

So don't worry about not closing a few numbers, think of it as your minds version of natural selection.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah I had a gf at the time and was just passing some time and I was talking to this girl (she wasn't all that attractive). Anyways, I said I had to go and her friend came up to me and started to interrogate and telling me it was a no no for me not to get her number.
 
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Originally posted by PRMoon
Nah not closing a number isn't that big of a deal at all. Some times I'm saying in my head "this girl is way cute...but I'm NEVER going to call her" so I won't ask. Why, you may ask? Becasue I don't have time to chase every girl I meet.

I use to spread myself way way too thin and let me tell you, that's definately a bad thing. If you don't set aside some spare time for yourself girls will drive you absolutly nuts and you'll end up not wanting to do anything with any of them after a while... I can testify to this.

So don't worry about not closing a few numbers, think of it as your minds version of natural selection.
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I have the same problem but I looked at it positively. It made me more of a man and sort of got me fit to be able to deal with women. When they demand more, be a man and step it up to be able to handle the drain and strain they put on you.
You will be a better person in the end.
 
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I meet around 1 or 2 girls every weak. I only ask for their if I'm going to call. No need to ask every girl for her number. Whats the point if you have no real interest?

Nowadays asking for a number means nothing.
 
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Originally posted by PRMoon
I use to spread myself way way too thin and let me tell you, that's definately a bad thing. If you don't set aside some spare time for yourself girls will drive you absolutly nuts and you'll end up not wanting to do anything with any of them after a while... I can testify to this.
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I am just getting out of this mode. There are only so many days in the week and every chick wants to be a twice a week girl. The practical limit to dating multiple women is about 3-4 and that can be too much if your own life gets too busy. Anymore and eventually you lose time for yourself which is where I'm at right now. Its tough to turn away opportunities that you would have died for only a few months ago, but you need to screen them out or you'll go nuts.

Unless a girl proves herself to be worthier than ones I already have, I bag getting the number. Its a waste of time and I love to see their expression when they know I decide not to number close them. Like a child, they want something bad that they can't have. Poor baby.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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At this point, I'm getting too lazy to do phone game. I'm experimenting with just giving the girl my number and not bother with calling her up. I'm getting all the numbers I want, but I'm also finding that I'm too lazy/tired to work on calling up Day2s.

Unless I'm super, super, SUPER interested then I'll exchange numbers. Otherwise, she can give me a call or not and I'll keep on gaming.
 
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