could be in school, class, gym, work but somewhere youve seen this girl many times and she obviously has noticed you many times, yet of a period of time youve just procrastinated and you have eventaully started to move your thought process thinking that she probobly wouldnt consider me now since ive taken so long to come talk to her? are the any legit excuses besides being with someone?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ever feel like youve waited to long and its now to late to bother talking to her
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RedScorpion
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Well, I would say there's only really one way to find out. I say if you see an opportunity to casually talk to her, take it and see if she responds.
Generally you need to approach quickly, as it is typically Alpha, but there's always hope as long as you still have her attention and show confidence when you do it.
What the fvck are you waiting for? Grow some balls and go talk to her.
What the fvck are you waiting for? Grow some balls and go talk to her.
ken chang
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Yup. At a bus everyday before I go to work. I tried to chat her up one time by asking her a question, but the stupid conductor butted in and answered the question before she could. We still see each other from time to time on the bus but I figure too much time has already passed to pursue it any further. If she decides to talk to me though then it would be OK.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NobodyCares1
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yeah... happened to me... I just usually let it go... when the opportunity comes then I'll talk to her but I guess a normal approach would seem weird...