could be in school, class, gym, work but somewhere youve seen this girl many times and she obviously has noticed you many times, yet of a period of time youve just procrastinated and you have eventaully started to move your thought process thinking that she probobly wouldnt consider me now since ive taken so long to come talk to her? are the any legit excuses besides being with someone?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ever feel like youve waited to long and its now to late to bother talking to her
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RedScorpion
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Well, I would say there's only really one way to find out. I say if you see an opportunity to casually talk to her, take it and see if she responds.
Generally you need to approach quickly, as it is typically Alpha, but there's always hope as long as you still have her attention and show confidence when you do it.
What the fvck are you waiting for? Grow some balls and go talk to her.
What the fvck are you waiting for? Grow some balls and go talk to her.
ken chang
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Yup. At a bus everyday before I go to work. I tried to chat her up one time by asking her a question, but the stupid conductor butted in and answered the question before she could. We still see each other from time to time on the bus but I figure too much time has already passed to pursue it any further. If she decides to talk to me though then it would be OK.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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yeah... happened to me... I just usually let it go... when the opportunity comes then I'll talk to her but I guess a normal approach would seem weird...