Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Have you ever gone out on a date with a girl not from you own country? If so, would you recommend it, and what advice would you give? If not, would you, and what would you consider doing if you did?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ever dated a foreign girl?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SparkleMotion
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I've never actually officially been GF/BF thing with a foreign girl. But I've been around of a lot of foreign women.
Generally being foreign to women will escalate your social proof. No particular advice, just follow the general advice as it applies to all women mostly.
Generally being foreign to women will escalate your social proof. No particular advice, just follow the general advice as it applies to all women mostly.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you live in the States, dating a woman from another country is great because she isn't American. But the main challenge for most guys from the States is that; SHE ISN'T AMERICAN!
There is a mindset of the typical American woman or woman who has become 'Americanized' that much of the DJ skills, tactics and theories are geared toward. On the other hand (depending on the nationality), it doesn't work quite as well with women from other countries.
In a nutshell, I've found that a DJ's inner game and individual charisma will take you further than tactics and lines. When it comes down to it, what matters is how well you handle yourself; how much control do you have of yourself and how well you understand yourself and interact with others. All of these things are important to any DJ, but more so with those who venture beyond the boundaries of the US.
There is a mindset of the typical American woman or woman who has become 'Americanized' that much of the DJ skills, tactics and theories are geared toward. On the other hand (depending on the nationality), it doesn't work quite as well with women from other countries.
In a nutshell, I've found that a DJ's inner game and individual charisma will take you further than tactics and lines. When it comes down to it, what matters is how well you handle yourself; how much control do you have of yourself and how well you understand yourself and interact with others. All of these things are important to any DJ, but more so with those who venture beyond the boundaries of the US.
I have hooked up with a Ukraine chick in Sevastopol one year and a Moscow chick a few years later. Both were family(?) type women living with family and both times were awsome trips. They fvucked like beasts till I wore thier little kitty kat down and had a lot of fun, lol.
Very sexual beasts though .....
Very sexual beasts though .....
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Well, I'm British myself so I don't really have any issues with Americanisation. Still it seems that there's so far a generally pretty positive attitude to this prospect. I myself haven't dated a foreign girl, but in the diverse world that is Oxford University, I do have my eye on one in particular. How universal do you think the DJ tactics are?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
trust me, besides the cultural differances, and they might be extreme depending on nationality, deep down, women are just women, they all have the same emotional traits. Maybe they done know about the games or how to play them, but, they are basically the same feminin ball of gobulygook to figure out.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
White girls don't do it for me anymore. After 25, they get this keg-on-legs body. Women of color age better.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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