Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Have you ever gone out on a date with a girl not from you own country? If so, would you recommend it, and what advice would you give? If not, would you, and what would you consider doing if you did?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ever dated a foreign girl?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SparkleMotion
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I've never actually officially been GF/BF thing with a foreign girl. But I've been around of a lot of foreign women.
Generally being foreign to women will escalate your social proof. No particular advice, just follow the general advice as it applies to all women mostly.
Generally being foreign to women will escalate your social proof. No particular advice, just follow the general advice as it applies to all women mostly.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you live in the States, dating a woman from another country is great because she isn't American. But the main challenge for most guys from the States is that; SHE ISN'T AMERICAN!
There is a mindset of the typical American woman or woman who has become 'Americanized' that much of the DJ skills, tactics and theories are geared toward. On the other hand (depending on the nationality), it doesn't work quite as well with women from other countries.
In a nutshell, I've found that a DJ's inner game and individual charisma will take you further than tactics and lines. When it comes down to it, what matters is how well you handle yourself; how much control do you have of yourself and how well you understand yourself and interact with others. All of these things are important to any DJ, but more so with those who venture beyond the boundaries of the US.
There is a mindset of the typical American woman or woman who has become 'Americanized' that much of the DJ skills, tactics and theories are geared toward. On the other hand (depending on the nationality), it doesn't work quite as well with women from other countries.
In a nutshell, I've found that a DJ's inner game and individual charisma will take you further than tactics and lines. When it comes down to it, what matters is how well you handle yourself; how much control do you have of yourself and how well you understand yourself and interact with others. All of these things are important to any DJ, but more so with those who venture beyond the boundaries of the US.
I have hooked up with a Ukraine chick in Sevastopol one year and a Moscow chick a few years later. Both were family(?) type women living with family and both times were awsome trips. They fvucked like beasts till I wore thier little kitty kat down and had a lot of fun, lol.
Very sexual beasts though .....
Very sexual beasts though .....
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Well, I'm British myself so I don't really have any issues with Americanisation. Still it seems that there's so far a generally pretty positive attitude to this prospect. I myself haven't dated a foreign girl, but in the diverse world that is Oxford University, I do have my eye on one in particular. How universal do you think the DJ tactics are?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
trust me, besides the cultural differances, and they might be extreme depending on nationality, deep down, women are just women, they all have the same emotional traits. Maybe they done know about the games or how to play them, but, they are basically the same feminin ball of gobulygook to figure out.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
White girls don't do it for me anymore. After 25, they get this keg-on-legs body. Women of color age better.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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