Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Have you ever gone out on a date with a girl not from you own country? If so, would you recommend it, and what advice would you give? If not, would you, and what would you consider doing if you did?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ever dated a foreign girl?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SparkleMotion
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I've never actually officially been GF/BF thing with a foreign girl. But I've been around of a lot of foreign women.
Generally being foreign to women will escalate your social proof. No particular advice, just follow the general advice as it applies to all women mostly.
Generally being foreign to women will escalate your social proof. No particular advice, just follow the general advice as it applies to all women mostly.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
If you live in the States, dating a woman from another country is great because she isn't American. But the main challenge for most guys from the States is that; SHE ISN'T AMERICAN!
There is a mindset of the typical American woman or woman who has become 'Americanized' that much of the DJ skills, tactics and theories are geared toward. On the other hand (depending on the nationality), it doesn't work quite as well with women from other countries.
In a nutshell, I've found that a DJ's inner game and individual charisma will take you further than tactics and lines. When it comes down to it, what matters is how well you handle yourself; how much control do you have of yourself and how well you understand yourself and interact with others. All of these things are important to any DJ, but more so with those who venture beyond the boundaries of the US.
There is a mindset of the typical American woman or woman who has become 'Americanized' that much of the DJ skills, tactics and theories are geared toward. On the other hand (depending on the nationality), it doesn't work quite as well with women from other countries.
In a nutshell, I've found that a DJ's inner game and individual charisma will take you further than tactics and lines. When it comes down to it, what matters is how well you handle yourself; how much control do you have of yourself and how well you understand yourself and interact with others. All of these things are important to any DJ, but more so with those who venture beyond the boundaries of the US.
I have hooked up with a Ukraine chick in Sevastopol one year and a Moscow chick a few years later. Both were family(?) type women living with family and both times were awsome trips. They fvucked like beasts till I wore thier little kitty kat down and had a lot of fun, lol.
Very sexual beasts though .....
Very sexual beasts though .....
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
Well, I'm British myself so I don't really have any issues with Americanisation. Still it seems that there's so far a generally pretty positive attitude to this prospect. I myself haven't dated a foreign girl, but in the diverse world that is Oxford University, I do have my eye on one in particular. How universal do you think the DJ tactics are?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
trust me, besides the cultural differances, and they might be extreme depending on nationality, deep down, women are just women, they all have the same emotional traits. Maybe they done know about the games or how to play them, but, they are basically the same feminin ball of gobulygook to figure out.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
White girls don't do it for me anymore. After 25, they get this keg-on-legs body. Women of color age better.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
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