Who's been on vacation, anywhere, be it 30 minutes away from, to as many as 20 hours away?
Show of hands?!
Do you remember the rush of NOT knowing what to expect, but being fully excited for whatever came of it?
Do you remember NOT expecting anything to come of it, yet meeting someone unique, fun, and different, be it new friends, or new girls?
Do you remember the feeling of NOT caring about the outcome of any situation, of living in the moment, and of making the most whatever came of it?
THAT'S HOW YOU OUGHT TO FEEL EVERYDAY AND EVERYWAY. WHETHER YOU ARE 3 minutes from your home, or 300 miles, or even 3000 miles. The likelihood of EVER meeting that person again is minimal, and who cares if you ever did, what's the worst that happens?
They don't like you?
So what, they didn't like you before you approached them, what changed since then?
This isn't the "I don't give a fawk" attitude, because in some ways, that has a habit of coming back and double crossing you. But it's the "I don't care what happens attitude, because I can't plan or predict the future."
I know we've all been there and felt the experience, the endorphins rushing through our body, the excitement of newness. Perhaps it was Disney world, or a ski trip, or Cancun, or a European vacation, or even a business trip. Bottom line, in each and everyone of us all that has to happen is to trigger the program mentally to behave in a sort of way, and it all clicks.
THIS is called NLP, again. When you picture a situation, to ascertain the feelings and skills from it to use in the future when you're most resourceful. It's a mental activity that results in increased happiness through a wider array of mental decisions.
Nearly every vacation I've been I've met a girl, not by force, but merely by chance that I let unfold. Some part of it that played into it was being a 'foreigner'. In most cases, we're all foreigners, since we're new to a town, a mall, a bar, a store, a state, or a country. Unless you're inside someone's reality, their 'monkey sphere' of understanding, you're a stranger.
Give it a try.
End.
A-Unit
Show of hands?!
Do you remember the rush of NOT knowing what to expect, but being fully excited for whatever came of it?
Do you remember NOT expecting anything to come of it, yet meeting someone unique, fun, and different, be it new friends, or new girls?
Do you remember the feeling of NOT caring about the outcome of any situation, of living in the moment, and of making the most whatever came of it?
THAT'S HOW YOU OUGHT TO FEEL EVERYDAY AND EVERYWAY. WHETHER YOU ARE 3 minutes from your home, or 300 miles, or even 3000 miles. The likelihood of EVER meeting that person again is minimal, and who cares if you ever did, what's the worst that happens?
They don't like you?
So what, they didn't like you before you approached them, what changed since then?
This isn't the "I don't give a fawk" attitude, because in some ways, that has a habit of coming back and double crossing you. But it's the "I don't care what happens attitude, because I can't plan or predict the future."
I know we've all been there and felt the experience, the endorphins rushing through our body, the excitement of newness. Perhaps it was Disney world, or a ski trip, or Cancun, or a European vacation, or even a business trip. Bottom line, in each and everyone of us all that has to happen is to trigger the program mentally to behave in a sort of way, and it all clicks.
THIS is called NLP, again. When you picture a situation, to ascertain the feelings and skills from it to use in the future when you're most resourceful. It's a mental activity that results in increased happiness through a wider array of mental decisions.
Nearly every vacation I've been I've met a girl, not by force, but merely by chance that I let unfold. Some part of it that played into it was being a 'foreigner'. In most cases, we're all foreigners, since we're new to a town, a mall, a bar, a store, a state, or a country. Unless you're inside someone's reality, their 'monkey sphere' of understanding, you're a stranger.
Give it a try.
End.
A-Unit