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Don Juan
If so how did you guys handle it and did you stay together?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ever been cheated on in a LTR?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Never tollerate it. No matter what the excuse.
Move on to better things.
There's no worse blight on a man than the one who stays with a chick that's cheated on him.
Move on to better things.
There's no worse blight on a man than the one who stays with a chick that's cheated on him.
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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Dont stay together. Let her feel like ****, use her and cheat with her best friend.
And the worst thing in the world you can do is stay with her if it happens. Although it may seem like you have the upper hand, she actually has you by the balls because she knows if she can get away with cheating then she can get away with anything.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
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I have supposedly not but the issue is that we will never know.
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Don Juan
None of you belive in a 2nd chance?
Here is a bit more of the story.
A while back, 4-5 months or so when we broke up for a few weeks I got a bj from her best friend. We finaly told her, which was the hardest thing I have ever done. And I can't imagne her telling me about her cheating was much easyer. She was able to get over what I did, even though we were not going out, it's still kinda wrong. That girl was also my brothers ex.
Here is a bit more of the story.
A while back, 4-5 months or so when we broke up for a few weeks I got a bj from her best friend. We finaly told her, which was the hardest thing I have ever done. And I can't imagne her telling me about her cheating was much easyer. She was able to get over what I did, even though we were not going out, it's still kinda wrong. That girl was also my brothers ex.