"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ever been cheated on in a LTR?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewMan

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Never tollerate it. No matter what the excuse.

Move on to better things.

There's no worse blight on a man than the one who stays with a chick that's cheated on him.
 

STR8UP

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Has anyone over the age of 25 NOT been cheated on?

Unless you are very inexperienced with women I seriously doubt it, whether you know it or not it has probably happened.
 

STR8UP

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And the worst thing in the world you can do is stay with her if it happens. Although it may seem like you have the upper hand, she actually has you by the balls because she knows if she can get away with cheating then she can get away with anything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Heretolearn

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I have supposedly not but the issue is that we will never know.
 

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None of you belive in a 2nd chance?

Here is a bit more of the story.

A while back, 4-5 months or so when we broke up for a few weeks I got a bj from her best friend. We finaly told her, which was the hardest thing I have ever done. And I can't imagne her telling me about her cheating was much easyer. She was able to get over what I did, even though we were not going out, it's still kinda wrong. That girl was also my brothers ex.
 
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