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Don Juan
If so how did you guys handle it and did you stay together?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ever been cheated on in a LTR?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Never tollerate it. No matter what the excuse.
Move on to better things.
There's no worse blight on a man than the one who stays with a chick that's cheated on him.
Move on to better things.
There's no worse blight on a man than the one who stays with a chick that's cheated on him.
MightyMate
Master Don Juan
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Dont stay together. Let her feel like ****, use her and cheat with her best friend.
And the worst thing in the world you can do is stay with her if it happens. Although it may seem like you have the upper hand, she actually has you by the balls because she knows if she can get away with cheating then she can get away with anything.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Heretolearn
Master Don Juan
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I have supposedly not but the issue is that we will never know.
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Don Juan
None of you belive in a 2nd chance?
Here is a bit more of the story.
A while back, 4-5 months or so when we broke up for a few weeks I got a bj from her best friend. We finaly told her, which was the hardest thing I have ever done. And I can't imagne her telling me about her cheating was much easyer. She was able to get over what I did, even though we were not going out, it's still kinda wrong. That girl was also my brothers ex.
Here is a bit more of the story.
A while back, 4-5 months or so when we broke up for a few weeks I got a bj from her best friend. We finaly told her, which was the hardest thing I have ever done. And I can't imagne her telling me about her cheating was much easyer. She was able to get over what I did, even though we were not going out, it's still kinda wrong. That girl was also my brothers ex.