"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Even the Bible warned us, Proverb 31

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31 These are the wise sayings of King Lemuel of Massa,[a]taught to him at his mother’s knee:

2 O my son, whom I have dedicated to the Lord, 3 do not spend your time with women—the royal pathway to destruction.

4 And it is not for kings, O Lemuel, to drink wine and whiskey. 5 For if they drink, they may forget their duties and be unable to give justice to those who are oppressed. 6-7 Hard liquor is for sick men at the brink of death, and wine for those in deep depression. Let them drink to forget their poverty and misery.

8 You should defend those who cannot help themselves. 9 Yes, speak up for the poor and helpless, and see that they get justice.

10 If you can find a truly good wife, she is worth more than precious gems! 11 Her husband can trust her, and she will richly satisfy his needs. 12 She will not hinder him but help him all her life. 13 She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. 14 She buys imported foods brought by ship from distant ports. 15 She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plans the day’s work for her servant girls. 16 She goes out to inspect a field and buys it; with her own hands she plants a vineyard. 17 She is energetic, a hard worker, 18 and watches for bargains. She works far into the night!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No one knows who King Lemuel was. My Zondervan NIV says those passages are non-Israelite in origin. BUT, the word Lemuel is very close to the word for Solomon. Jewish legend is that Lemuel was King Solomon, who was born out of David's adultery with Bathsheba. That moment of lust created a king with a weakness for women. He had over a thousand wives and concubines.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's why the fall is attributed to Adam, when it was in fact Eve who disobeyed first.

When we men abdicate our authority, we have ourselves to blame for the result. We are seeing this today because our forefathers caved to a handful of loudmouth women in the 60s.
 

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Eve disobeyed first, but instead of calling her out on her bad behavior, Adam joined in it with her.

One of the most interesting theories I have read about the garden of Eden, was that it was a metaphor for humankind's time spent as hunter-gatherers. Life started to suck a lot worse when people took up agriculture.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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iv'e read hte bible like 5 times cover to cover

if it's not a direct quote from god, or from jesus, i take it wiht a grain of salt. this sin't.
 

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iv'e read hte bible like 5 times cover to cover

if it's not a direct quote from god, or from jesus, i take it wiht a grain of salt. this sin't.
Please quote to me the direct words from God regarding men vs. women. Or, do you believe him to be a God of chaos and that's not his book?
We can possibly save the world from itself and future sexual carnage if you will relay to us the necessary knowledge.…
 
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Please quote to me the direct words from God regarding men vs. women. Or, do you believe him to be a God of chaos and that's not his book?
We can possibly save the world from itself and future sexual carnage if you will relay to us the necessary knowledge.…
What's in the book is basically all the political and social garbage and problems existed at the time of Christ and even hundreds to thousands of years before Christ. Nothings changed except technology.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Meaningless,Meaningless everything is meaningless!!..- King Solomon (read the whole book of Ecclesiastes,king Solomon had over 1000 women in his harem,and what was his conclusion at the end of the book? that the only thing meaningful in life is worshiping God,if not you will find no meaning.
 

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Meaningless,Meaningless everything is meaningless!!..- King Solomon (read the whole book of Ecclesiastes,king Solomon had over 1000 women in his harem,and what was his conclusion at the end of the book? that the only thing meaningful in life is worshiping God,if not you will find no meaning.
That makes a lot of sense.
Eve from the beginning fucjed man and God over amd we are told this yet we put all our efforts into a damn woman.
God should come first after all he is the creator of all this, not a damn woman
 

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Only the Lord can provide a good woman. This world produces trash.

Ref. "A prudent wife, is from the Lord."
 
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Funny thread haha
Umm

Just dont make the woman your path/adventure

Make god first = avoid alot of chit..

Wisdom from the OGs

Take it or leave it..

Just please take it..
 

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Fear of death is a strong motivator for a belief in God.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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