"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Even pro athletes cannot escape the BPD

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Kris Benson, former major league baseball pitcher married a BPD and she recently tried to kill him.

http://www.superiortelegram.com/event/article/id/78878/

Her husband, who was hiding in the woods when Smyrna police officers arrived early Sunday evening, said Anna Benson had threatened him with the gun after smashing a computer with her baton.
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Even worse then that, she is possibly a cold blooded killer from this case years before they got married:

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_...n-once-implicated-in-1996-murder-report-says/

What was this guy thinking marrying a stripper? Even pro athletes can fall victim to the BPD poon.

(CBS) - Anna Benson, the ex- wife of major league baseball player Kris Benson, was once implicated in the 1996 murder of an 18-year-old man and was the subject of a national manhunt, according to a report in the New York Daily News.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Saw that earlier, BPD's everywhere, no one is immune. Keep your eyes open...
 
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But this guy could have had any woman he wanted, and he chose the crazy BPD. I wonder if she got any of his money in the divorce? Probably not, that's why she came back in kevlar.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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5string said:
Angelina Jolie
Marilyn Monroe
Princess Diana

on and on
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Angelina Jolie (divorced twice...I predict three times and Brad Pitt will be just another casualty)
Marilyn Monroe (divorced three times)
Princess Diane (serial cheater)
 
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Malice said:
But this guy could have had any woman he wanted, and he chose the crazy BPD. I wonder if she got any of his money in the divorce? Probably not, that's why she came back in kevlar.
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He didn't know she was BPD...... or even what it was... or just wasn't aware of the signs.

I didn't either before coming to this site.
 
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The problem is, as we all know, BPDs always hook you with amazing bedroom antics. I fell for it twice. Really hard to get hooks out of your system. I guess even top pro athletes get blasted by them. We don't WANT to face the truth because we want the golden vag. And when we do get the picture, we are already hooked. Too bad, really.
 
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