"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Even pro athletes cannot escape the BPD

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Kris Benson, former major league baseball pitcher married a BPD and she recently tried to kill him.

http://www.superiortelegram.com/event/article/id/78878/

Her husband, who was hiding in the woods when Smyrna police officers arrived early Sunday evening, said Anna Benson had threatened him with the gun after smashing a computer with her baton.

Even worse then that, she is possibly a cold blooded killer from this case years before they got married:

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_...n-once-implicated-in-1996-murder-report-says/

What was this guy thinking marrying a stripper? Even pro athletes can fall victim to the BPD poon.

(CBS) - Anna Benson, the ex- wife of major league baseball player Kris Benson, was once implicated in the 1996 murder of an 18-year-old man and was the subject of a national manhunt, according to a report in the New York Daily News.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Saw that earlier, BPD's everywhere, no one is immune. Keep your eyes open...
 

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But this guy could have had any woman he wanted, and he chose the crazy BPD. I wonder if she got any of his money in the divorce? Probably not, that's why she came back in kevlar.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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5string said:
Angelina Jolie
Marilyn Monroe
Princess Diana

on and on
Angelina Jolie (divorced twice...I predict three times and Brad Pitt will be just another casualty)
Marilyn Monroe (divorced three times)
Princess Diane (serial cheater)
 

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Malice said:
But this guy could have had any woman he wanted, and he chose the crazy BPD. I wonder if she got any of his money in the divorce? Probably not, that's why she came back in kevlar.
He didn't know she was BPD...... or even what it was... or just wasn't aware of the signs.

I didn't either before coming to this site.
 

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The problem is, as we all know, BPDs always hook you with amazing bedroom antics. I fell for it twice. Really hard to get hooks out of your system. I guess even top pro athletes get blasted by them. We don't WANT to face the truth because we want the golden vag. And when we do get the picture, we are already hooked. Too bad, really.
 
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